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soo; new man interest for me & i'm not sure what to think of it, eep. i am such a relationship noob; help is nice (:
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post Jan 25 2007, 03:36 AM
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ok. so i met this guy through a friend at a party, his name is mike.. _smile.gif we've been conversing on the phone for about 3 weeks now. i know who he is, i know he's not creepy, i know he's not a staulker etc. the point is: it seems like we know everything about each other, & we've gotten to know each other pretty darn well. also, we haven't hung out yet. on saturday we're supposed to & it seems like we've already basically planned to make out. haha. now my question is: would making out on a first date make me too easy or willing to get into a relationship too quickly? i really want to, he deserves it rolleyes.gif but i don't want him to get the wrong idea about me.. opinions, thoughts?
 
 
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post Jan 26 2007, 08:20 PM
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ok. so i met this guy through a friend at a party, his name is mike.. _smile.gif we've been conversing on the phone for about 3 weeks now. i know who he is, i know he's not creepy, i know he's not a staulker etc. the point is: it seems like we know everything about each other, & we've gotten to know each other pretty darn well. also, we haven't hung out yet. on saturday we're supposed to & it seems like we've already basically planned to make out. haha. now my question is: would making out on a first date make me too easy or willing to get into a relationship too quickly? i really want to, he deserves it rolleyes.gif but i don't want him to get the wrong idea about me.. opinions, thoughts?


Don't make out on the first date just. He'll loose respect for you. Instead don't worry about it, and if he makes a move say, "Nope, not on the first date." It's like you putting a hook in the guys mouth. I'm 90% sure you'll get another date, and when you do kiss he'll be starving for it... haha ;]
 

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ola says hola   soo; new man interest for me & i'm not sure what to think of it   Jan 25 2007, 03:36 AM
.fire   It would make you a slut.   Jan 25 2007, 06:24 AM
mipadi   QUOTE(.fire @ Jan 25 2007, 6:24 AM) It wo...   Jan 25 2007, 11:25 AM
JakeKKing   QUOTE(mipadi @ Jan 25 2007, 11:25 AM) Neg...   Jan 27 2007, 03:19 AM
LEDO_D0RKETTE   I don't think there's anything wrong about...   Jan 25 2007, 06:43 PM
Endless_Symphony   if both of you feel it, then you should kiss. ther...   Jan 25 2007, 07:13 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(ola says hola @ Jan 25 2007, 3:36 A...   Jan 26 2007, 08:20 PM
xMyStIcShAd0wSx   It makes you look desperate, easy, slutty, whateve...   Jan 26 2007, 08:32 PM
suddenly she   Planned to make out? What the hell? You do sound p...   Jan 27 2007, 05:29 PM
SimplicityGirl   Uhh no. The furthest I did on a first date was kis...   Jan 28 2007, 05:15 PM
xoxo_koala_kisses_   Oh, honey, you've got to learn how to play the...   Jan 28 2007, 05:22 PM
ola says hola   too late... hung out yesterday, didn't check w...   Jan 28 2007, 06:59 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(ola says hola @ Jan 28 2007, 6:59 P...   Jan 29 2007, 12:33 PM
maximelids   Hey making out is not such a BIG issue. I mean if...   Jan 29 2007, 01:03 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(maximelids @ Jan 29 2007, 1:03 PM) ...   Jan 29 2007, 01:06 PM
maximelids   Ps: Acid, you are at the tip of my tounge at the m...   Jan 29 2007, 05:28 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(maximelids @ Jan 29 2007, 5:28 PM) ...   Jan 29 2007, 07:35 PM
supimateecup   if youre gunna make out. at least wait till the en...   Jan 29 2007, 10:40 PM
ola says hola   ok wow. thank you for all your advice. even if a f...   Jan 30 2007, 12:10 AM


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