do you prefer official "going out" first or actual "going out" first? |
 Jan 25 2007, 08:37 PM
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Official 'going out' meaning someone asks another if they will "go out" with them, and somehow you're just called boyfriend and girlfriend AND THEN you start hanging out and stuff OR do you prefer actually going out and doing activities with someone and then you start being all cute together and stuff and somehow you're considered boyfriend and girlfriend?
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Jan 26 2007, 12:44 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
well I've experienced both situations and I must say, the second option worked out better for me.
First boyfriend...we didn't really get to know each other before we become official...and we essentially had nothing in common. It became somewhat of a physical stuff based relationship which I didn't quite like...and we broke it off a month later. My current boyfriend...we knew each other through school (we were both in the same program) and got to know each other better via a friend. Exchanged MSN and numbers and we started talking more and more over MSN. Hung out and went out a lot as friends...feelings developed and eventually I just asked him how he felt about me. He said he had feelings for me too and we got together. While we considered ourselves "official" boyfriend/girlfriend since the day that I asked, we were "going out" for about half a year before hand. |
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Cake. do you prefer official "going out" first or actual "going out" first? Jan 25 2007, 08:37 PM
x_y0urElectrikk I like hanging out with someone... then later they... Jan 25 2007, 09:13 PM electric shock i think i like the actual dating & hanging out... Jan 25 2007, 09:14 PM suddenly she I think going out with a guy is just a way to get ... Jan 25 2007, 09:28 PM Gypsy Eyes Hanging out with a guy first usually works better,... Jan 25 2007, 09:45 PM black_heart the second choice. Jan 25 2007, 10:51 PM My Cinderella. I like getting to know the guy before having him a... Jan 25 2007, 10:52 PM catastrophic I think hanging out first is the better approach b... Jan 26 2007, 12:16 AM xMyStIcShAd0wSx doesn't matter... although i like to know the ... Jan 26 2007, 01:08 AM Uronacid I have done... the second one.. XD Jan 26 2007, 02:09 AM icy_wonderland QUOTE(Cake. @ Jan 26 2007, 9:37 AM) prefe... Jan 26 2007, 03:26 AM kayceeisms I prefer so much to hang out with him before-hand.... Jan 26 2007, 03:00 PM ashopely i like it when i actually HANG OUT with someone, a... Jan 26 2007, 04:32 PM
aicilah999 i dont think you can actually be called boyfriend ... Jan 26 2007, 05:30 PM |
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