3 girls and 1 guy, What should I do? Options

[princess*missy]

Hey Everyone. First off, I just want to say how much I appreciate it that you guys are taking the time to read this. Well, I have a problem... I like this guy, Brandon, and so does my friend, Courtney, but in the mean time... My other friend Jessica, likes him too... and he's her ex, from like a year - two years ago... She's (Jessica) been telling everyone including me that she gives up on him because he's not responding to her calls. But everytime I see her she's always talking about how much she loves Brandon. Thing is she doesn't know I like him.

I don't wanna loose my two friends by trying to go out with Brandon but shouldn't they consider how I feel too? Help me please!

[maximelids]

I am going to be very frank with you.
I am not going beat around the bush or stuff like that.

Lol what rules are that?
Love does not go by rules. Love is bondless.

If you do get into a relationship with him, I see no reason why you should feel sorry for your friends. Because it's his choice whom he wants to love/like. You can't force him to like his ex. They broke up, life moves on. Yes I might sound cruel, but that's life. It never turns out the way you want it to.
In fact if I was your friend, the one that broke up 2 years ago with him, I would feel happy for him that he has met someone wonderful. If she starts to backstab you and stuff, I can tell you that she is not a friend at all.
**You can't demand someone to love you. You got to earn and respect someone's love. - that's a piece of advice to your friend.

There is a BIG difference between a crush and love.
If I was you, I would take things slowly, step by step.
And remember, if he want's to know you better, it does not mean that he likes you.
Become his friend at first, than his good friend, than his best friend and if all things are working out very well, than why not try a relationship?
Never rush things too quickly. Follow the flow of water, never swim against it.
Th most important thing in a relationship is to be yourself. Never try to be someone great or lie. I

Well I got so much more to say, but I guess it's going to start to sound draggy.
Hopefully my advice helps you out.
Peace out.
Max