Ok boys,you know how you all act, So tell me what I should do. Options

[sukixinaxmou]

You guys know how other guys act.SO explain PLEASE!
I met this guy at the mall January 6th.We started going out the 8th.He makes me really happy,but then again,he makes me really annoyed and angry and sad and frustrated.Hes really emo,too.He said before he met me he was on the edge of killing himself.Hes making all of these plans to marry me when I'm old enough.By the way,I'm 13,hes 15.Anywho,he's okay that I'm bi,and all.And I really don't know what to do.Everyone call me a whore because I'm always in a new relationship.But that's been happening since last year when my boyfriend died,and then my other boyfriend died,and then my best friend died.I'm so confused.Because if I leave him I'll tell myself that I want to be single for a while,but then like 3 days later I'm in another relationship with another guy I don't really like.Plus,my bf seems like a cheater,because when we met he had a gf and he kept flirting with me,god only knows if he is doing the same thing to me.I don't know what to do.If I leave him,what if I really don't get another guy for a while,I don't want to be alone,and I don't want people thinking I'm a whore or anything.And then again,what if he isn't kidding.He says if we ever break up he'll kill himself?I wouldn't be able to live with that.Anybody know what I should do?

[maximelids]

I have been in many relationships until I met my dream girl.
I had the same problem as you so I will tell you my story and hopefully it is useful for you.

I met a girl that was going to commit sucide. I tired to talk things into her, and she told me that she loved me. I got into the relationship with her so as to try and comfort her. To tell you the truth, I did not like her a bit, but I was there more to help her.

What I did turned out bad. She started to love me more and more and one day she started talking to me about getting married when we get older.
Yes it was my fault, because I led her on, thinking that I love her 'so much', but at least I got her out of her sucide mentality.

Now was the hard part, trying to break up with her.
What I did was really hard for both of us (me and my 'ex').
I told her the truth.

We sat down at a park and after telling her the truth, I got a slap and she ran off.
I was really worried that she would commit sucide and stuff.
So at night I called her and we talked for hours on the phone,
I told her that she deserves a better guy in life and I would always be there for her if she needs help.

Another piece of advice. It always takes time to heal wounds. So after that, I backed off for a year and we lost contact. I met her on friendster 2 years ago and we started talking again.
Today, suprice suprice, she is my best friend and she is with a wonderful guy!

At your age, 13, it is best to make many friends instead of jumping into a relationship with every new guy you meet. Jumping into a relationship 2 days after meeting him is a bit fresh! It takes months and even years to get to know a person well. My sister and brother in law were together for 2 years before they decided to get into a relationship. 8 years later, today, I bet they are the most loving couple in the world.
Yes I know it is hard to control your feelings for a guy.
At your age, I was falling for every new girl I met. haha. But you got to think outside the box(meaning think about the events that could happen after getting into a new relationship) and learn how to control your feelings.
Bottom line, get to know the guy very well before you decide to get into a relationship with him. I got many very good female friends that I could have gone into a relationship with but I prefered to become friends with. That's why today I have many good friends.

And don't give a dam about what other's think about you. It is you living your life and not them living it for you. I usually ignore people that insult me. Or i always ask them to stare into the mirror hard before critising others.

Sorry about the long post and hopefully it helps you out. I am 17, so not long ago I had the same problems as you. So hopefully my advice helps you out.