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 Jan 23 2007, 10:53 PM
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alright so my bestfriend expects so much from me (my attention whenever he asks for it, expects me to say yes whenever he asks me to do something, and he ALWAYS asks me to do things i would never do for any one else, not even my self) but its complicated because he makes me feel sorry for him and so everytime he asks for something i just do it. But i hate it because he doesnt do things for me in return, and the things i (indirectly ask/things you should already do when your someones bestfriend) he doesnt even do. Its like whenever we try to have an important conversation and its time for me to talke he never pays attention or he starts listening to what other people are saying.Then he complains that i never say anything when we talk, but thats only because he never gives me time to talk! hes always the one whos talking.
- i feel like hes using me...  -any of you guys have this problem  -HELP? any suggestions on how i should fix this problem 
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Jan 25 2007, 06:31 PM
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You should confront him &stand up for yourself. Why do you call him your bestfriend if he doesn't appreciate you &the things you do for him?
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guessewho appreciation/attention Jan 23 2007, 10:53 PM
eboarder2020 I personally think that this person isnt out there... Jan 24 2007, 02:57 AM Liklibo I agree with the above.
He doesn't seem commit... Jan 24 2007, 03:05 AM JakeKKing Listen, don't listen to them. He obviously is ... Jan 24 2007, 11:29 AM
guessewho QUOTE(JakeKKing @ Jan 24 2007, 12:29 PM) ... Jan 25 2007, 05:36 PM Uronacid The only one that can use you is yourself. You are... Jan 24 2007, 08:10 PM xMyStIcShAd0wSx You really need to tell him what you told us. Don... Jan 24 2007, 08:12 PM |
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