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Ex-boyfriend of 3yrs, turns out to be gay
*icecreamisyummy*
post Jan 21 2007, 07:21 PM
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so this weekend i have a few dreams about me and my ex boyfriend of 3 years... and i didnt know why. well today at work i was telling my best friend about it, cuz its her cousin, and then she started talking about a family party last nite and how her cousin and his male roomate got into a fight... and i said "they act like a married couple or something, they always fight" she jsut looked at me

people have always said that they thought my ex was gay and what not... and yea i did see where they were coming from but i never went to the extent of thinking it myself... it was like i was in denial or something

well it turns out that him and his roomate have been a couple for about 7 months now. finding this out was kind of a relief cuz i used to get jealous when i would hear about him and a girl...which i did all the time since i know his fam and i hang out with his cousin all the time. and now there isnt a girl in the way to make me jealous... jsut a guy.

i still have feelings for him, i mean... 3 yrs i obviously fell in love and although we havent been a couple for about a year or two, i still care about him and what not.

i really dont know what to do what to think or anything... i feel like breaking down.

so has this ever happened to anyone??? what should i do about it?? i mean yea i guess i cant do anythign about it.

idk im still kinda in denial.
 
 
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*icecreamisyummy*
post Jan 24 2007, 09:53 PM
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alright. its not like i want to get back with him or something. cuz i dont even if he were straight. but im just sayin it does hurt knowin that the whole relationship was basically "fake"
 
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post Jan 24 2007, 09:55 PM
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QUOTE(icecreamisyummy @ Jan 24 2007, 9:53 PM) *
alright. its not like i want to get back with him or something. cuz i dont even if he were straight. but im just sayin it does hurt knowin that the whole relationship was basically "fake"


Maybe he was straight when he dated you. You don't know that he was gay while you were dating. You're jumping to conclusions. Most importantly, it's over, and you have to move on.
 

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icecreamisyummy   Ex-boyfriend of 3yrs   Jan 21 2007, 07:21 PM
nhikpham   u can jus forget bout him..is there anyone else u ...   Jan 21 2007, 07:45 PM
Uronacid   You're going to have to let your feelings subs...   Jan 22 2007, 02:42 PM
JakeKKing   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jan 22 2007, 2:42 PM) Yo...   Jan 24 2007, 01:01 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(JakeKKing @ Jan 24 2007, 1:01 PM) B...   Jan 24 2007, 01:02 PM
xMyStIcShAd0wSx   you should forget about it and move on. he chose t...   Jan 22 2007, 08:00 PM
icecreamisyummy   we've been seperated for about 1 year 2 years....   Jan 22 2007, 09:04 PM
Uronacid   Your feelings will eventually go away, don't w...   Jan 22 2007, 09:45 PM
french_fries   just forget about it.. =/   Jan 24 2007, 04:30 PM
icecreamisyummy   alright. its not like i want to get back with him ...   Jan 24 2007, 09:53 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(icecreamisyummy @ Jan 24 2007, 9:53...   Jan 24 2007, 09:55 PM
lol lollipops   QUOTE(icecreamisyummy @ Jan 24 2007, 9:53...   Jan 25 2007, 07:56 PM
icecreamisyummy   QUOTE(lol lollipops @ Jan 25 2007, 7:56 P...   Jan 25 2007, 10:00 PM
mishyerr   well, if you two turned out to be friends, that wo...   Jan 25 2007, 10:30 PM


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