Daddy Options

[smileeetina]

One last chance.

[*Uronacid*]

He's a fu/king drunk. Talks nonesense like he knows everything. Truthfully, I can't stand him. I get good grades, clean the whole house when I get home, never asked for money or to go out late. I got a job on my own. And He comes home, criticize everything. Says that I don't know anything. WHAT THE HECK. He never says sorry for his damn mistakes. When I was little he was a abusive drunk. Stopped the day he went to jail. & on new years day I called the cops on him. (Don't wanna say why.) After fifteen years of his bullshit, now he's trying ot CHANGE? NOW?! Fifteen years of is criticism and mental-verbal-physcial abuse, he's trying to change now?! I'm leaving this house when I'm 18. And I know forsure he can't make up the next 3 years for the fifteen years of bullshit.

But I don't know, in the back of my mind, I think that I should give him the chance.
But I'm scared that I might regret it.

Well, I'm sorry your life has been horrible. On the other hand, if he is willing to change. It's better that it happens now instead of never. If you are asking us why he decided to change.

I think you should take him to a family psychiatrist (His health insurance may cover it). That way you can both talk about your issues and you make him realize why you are so upset. He may realize how much of a horrible person he had been, and understand why he has to change. You may see it from his perspective and understand why he is finally deciding to change.

If he does truly change you will regret harboring a grievance against your father.

P.S. You don't have to wait until you are 18 to move out of the house. If things to make a turn for the better, I would suggest trying to get emancipated. You should talk to Dianna(a painefull euphoria). She did this, and it worked out pretty well. All you have to do is find a job that pays you enough money so you can support yourself. It's a lot of work, but if you're determined you can easily do it.

[smileeetina]

P.S. You don't have to wait until you are 18 to move out of the house. If things to make a turn for the better, I would suggest trying to get emancipated. You should talk to Dianna(a painefull euphoria). She did this, and it worked out pretty well. All you have to do is find a job that pays you enough money so you can support yourself. It's a lot of work, but if you're determined you can easily do it.

I would get emancipated but, I have 2 little sisters. I want to stick around for them. But when I'm 18, I'm planning on taking them out alot or having them stay with me whenever he's drunk (he's trying to stay sober right now, I'm trying to see how long is lasts). But whatever's best.

[*Uronacid*]

I would get emancipated but, I have 2 little sisters. I want to stick around for them. But when I'm 18, I'm planning on taking them out alot or having them stay with me whenever he's drunk (he's trying to stay sober right now, I'm trying to see how long is lasts). But whatever's best.

You should encourage him to join AA.