Long distant. Meeting the special person Options

[maximelids]

I'm just curious if anybody has met thier long-distant partners in real life?

I'm in a long distant relationship with a girl from Bulgaria. We live at different ends of the world. Been a few months we have been 'togethere'. We are both in our teens.

She has invited me to stay a week with her and her family in Bulgaria, I'm really looking forward to it but I only have negative thoughts in my mind at the moment.
What if it is a scam? What if she is not the person she claims to be in the vertual world?
On top of that she lives in the most dangerous part of Bulgaria.
Is it worth risking my life to meet her?

Can anybody with similar relationships adivce me please?

Thank you

[skillxz]

jeez man..I don't know what to say, that is simply crazy, just the whole idea, but I give you much respect, definitely, you are very determined, always a good thing.

I just never believe I could get that far seriously out of an internet relationship, to the point where you're flying to another COUNTRY to meet someone, I mean you're taking so many risks, what if she's different in person, live? What if you guys aren't as open and easy going in person? What if you guys really can't hit it off, then you just wasted a thousand dollar trip, and stuck with her for the rest of the week...just so many what if's, yet again, if you didn't take the chance, I understand you would be wondering what if as well, just in the other direction.

Can your family afford this? Would your parents accept this, or would they think you were out of your mind? I hope you know what true love is, But you probably do, as you won't actually know until you've really felt it.

Keep us updated, best of luck!