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Does this guy like me?, Bear with me...it's actually semi-interseting! :) |
Dec 31 2006, 10:31 PM
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I'll try to keep this as brief as possible, but bear with me!! Please read the post in it's entirety and write your honest opinions!!! :]
Mid-October: Meet guy. Talk on phone for 2 hours. 2 nights later we hang out. Go back to his place. [You may now use your imagination as to what happened when we went back to his place, and I'm sure whatever you're able to conjure up DID, in fact, happen...] {That was me politely saying that I slept with the guy...JUST INCASE you didn't catch on} Moving on... Didn't hear from him for a week or so, then out of the blue, he texted me. Mmmk, cool. We kept in touch on Myspace, but our conversations were always directed towards meeting up again and repeating what happened on the first night... December 7: Called me during the afternoon to "meet up" <--we'll just call our rendevouzs that from here on out...okay? I couldn't drive to see him, though, because my parents were coming into town and I had previous engagements December 12: He came over to my place because I had to help him with an assignment...fair enough, I REALLY DID help him with the assignment. Of course, we had a little fun afterwards, and he ended up spending the night at my place. I had a final the next morning, so he left with me when I had to leave for class. He kissed me goodbye, and that was that. December 16: He called me. He HAD been drinking, but he wasn't so wasted that he couldn't control himself. Wanted me to come over. I drove to see him and we ended up having some fun. I got up to leave, and he seemed almost BITTER at the idea of me getting up to leave, but I had just assumed that he called me for one thing, and one thing only. We ended up cuddling and falling asleep. I woke up 2 hours later and realized I had fallen asleep, so I got up and left. WENT HOME AFTER FINALS FOR CHRISTMAS BREAK He called me on 12/28 or 12/29 to see what I was doing, but I told him I was still at home. He said he was driving back to our college town after being back to his hometown for a few days and told me to give him a call when I got back in town. I called him yesterday because I came back to our college town for a few days [mainly for New Years]. He sounded TOTALLY UP to hang out, but he was going to go to a movie first. He said he'd call me afterwards. Never got a call. Sent him a message on Myspace saying that I'll be here until the 2nd and that I'd like to "meet up" It's obvious that I wasn't just a one-night stand since we've met up on 3 different occasions, but I'm starting to wonder if this guy thinks there's more to us than messing around...??? My philosophy on guys getting some JUST to get it is this: -They would get it and immediately leave or find an excuse to make me leave. [Well in my current situation: the first time he told me I could stay, the second time he stayed at my place, and the third time I fell asleep at his place....] -They wouldn't just call out of the blue to talk. [But in my situation, he called me on the road, and he didn't seem to have anything in particular to talk about. He knew I was at home, and was wondering when I'd be getting back to town, but nothing was really said about "meeting up". I'm confused. I'd really appreciate the GUYS' HELP, since you might be able to tell where this fella's comin from....ya'll have the testerone runnin in your veins....give me some insight. Am I crazy to think he's developing SOME SORT of feelings for me???? (I know it's like a diary entry, but I remember dates well...especially when it comes to stuff like this, and especially since it hasn't been but 2 weeks since we last "got together") |
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Jan 23 2007, 01:13 AM
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UPDATE
I think I have a UTI. I've had one before from not peeing after sex, so I know what to expect with one. They're so uncomfortable! I got a big 3L bottle of cranberry juice, and I have every intention of drinking the entire thing tomorrow! Also, I took the Plan B pills on Saturday, so I'm praying that they worked [if anything happened to have slipped up]. God knows I'm not ready for a kid, and I know what ya'll are going to say... "If you're not ready for a kid, then don't be having sex...OR, at least be using some form of contraception." We use condoms...99% of the time. I'm normally on the pill, but my cycle has been screwed up since I stopped taking them. I had been bleeding [graphic, sorry] for a month and a half straight when my doctor finally said to stop taking them. I like him, I do. Yeah, it's one of those situations where it's a mutual understanding that we're just f**k buddies, but it's fun, and I'm completely comfortable with him. I don't see the problem with what we're doing as long as it's understood that neither of us expect anything. IF something were to start leaning towards a relationship, I wouldn't be against the idea, BUT I definitely don't expect it to lean that way anytime soon! |
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letdramadie Does this guy like me? Dec 31 2006, 10:31 PM
secrets-out He's using you.
It looks like its you who has... Jan 1 2007, 12:02 AM
Die romantic Yea, I think he's using you..sorry :[ Jan 1 2007, 12:23 AM
asung88 yup hes using you. Jan 1 2007, 12:25 AM
malimars omg yeah he is using you and if you cant see that ... Jan 1 2007, 01:53 AM
showstopper! You guys have already met each other a few times. ... Jan 1 2007, 04:44 AM
APPLEjuicex wtf..you slept with him after the first night?
it... Jan 1 2007, 10:49 AM
ashopely you slept with him after only talking to him on th... Jan 1 2007, 12:15 PM
letdramadie ^^^Hey everyone, thanks for your brutally honest o... Jan 1 2007, 02:57 PM
itsnever4ever QUOTE(letdramadie @ Jan 1 2007, 11:57 AM)... Jan 1 2007, 11:17 PM
letdramadie QUOTE(itsnever4ever @ Jan 1 2007, 10:17 P... Jan 2 2007, 02:15 AM
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a painefull euphoria sorry hun its just a booty call. Jan 2 2007, 01:23 AM
xmoon_lightx maybe hes just think over about what he did. Jan 3 2007, 08:02 PM
Uronacid He may be developing feelings for you, but persona... Jan 3 2007, 08:09 PM
letdramadie QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jan 3 2007, 7:09 PM) He ... Jan 9 2007, 12:58 AM
black_heart i want to see how he looks like. Jan 6 2007, 02:48 AM
LostRenaissance ditch'em cuz he's playing around with u Jan 6 2007, 08:20 AM
black_heart all u have to do is rinse and repeat Jan 6 2007, 03:24 PM
x1227x he's using you for a booty call. Jan 6 2007, 04:01 PM
xMyStIcShAd0wSx he just thinks you as a toy honey. sry. Jan 6 2007, 05:05 PM
JakeKKing No, he hates you. He's just afraid to tell you... Jan 9 2007, 01:10 AM
RAWRxhardcore it sounds to me like hes using you...
it seems to... Jan 16 2007, 01:38 PM
letdramadie UPDATE TIME
I got a phone call from the guy last ... Jan 21 2007, 01:00 AM
Uronacid QUOTE(letdramadie @ Jan 21 2007, 1:00 AM)... Jan 21 2007, 01:32 AM
Hiphop d[-_-]b You're over analyzing everything. He's rea... Jan 21 2007, 01:06 AM
catastrophic Sounds like he just wants to have you around to pl... Jan 21 2007, 01:20 AM
letdramadie [LONG UPDATE FOLLOWS]
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