... getting tired of guessing games, heh. another one of those guy probs Options

[drummergirlmarim...]

hey, er. well lemme just say it out.
i have a guy friend, whos in the school band with me, and we are often mistaken to be a couple. blah. hes really nice to me, we always hang around, but thats cuz we're bandsmen. most bandsmen are never that far apart from each other. and for us, its hard to be away frmo each other. we take the same school bus together (we always sit together), we get in the breakfast line together then eat together and stick around the band area (as many of the bandsmen do) till the bell rings, then we both head upstairs (his class is right next to my locker), then at 4th period we see each other again cuz its BAND period :) and we're both in the same section (percussion) so we're never more than 2 ft apart from each other, then right after is lunch, and i tend to sit with the percussionists as does my friend, and yeah... and after school too, i tend to see him a lot. especially when theres a band event afterschool,:P this is a weir entry.
blah.
i have one of his sweaters, a curious area where most of my friends tend to think of as an "bf/gf" thing. weird. now. is that an abnormally close relationship or a relationship thats not quite a "bf/gf" thing?
and just for the record, i like him ^ ^;;

[multifaceted]

well that was like me and best guyfriend in 8th grade.

we had the same schedule, ate at the same table (azn crew), same bus, even got off at the same time, same homeroom. and we were always together, ditching class and creating trouble.

I had one of his sax's reeds for some reason that i don't remember that was used already.

it is nto abnormal nor does it means that he likes you. I think my guyfriend is hot no doubt but i don't want him as a bf, even if he asked me out because i don't want to ruin the great friendship we have. even now we still have a strong bond, since i left public high school. He still calls and we talk for hours about teachers and the good old days.

i suggest that you not say anything about this to him... because if he does like you and you guys go out and break up. its going to ruin your friendship as well.