Long distant. Meeting the special person Options

[maximelids]

I'm just curious if anybody has met thier long-distant partners in real life?

I'm in a long distant relationship with a girl from Bulgaria. We live at different ends of the world. Been a few months we have been 'togethere'. We are both in our teens.

She has invited me to stay a week with her and her family in Bulgaria, I'm really looking forward to it but I only have negative thoughts in my mind at the moment.
What if it is a scam? What if she is not the person she claims to be in the vertual world?
On top of that she lives in the most dangerous part of Bulgaria.
Is it worth risking my life to meet her?

Can anybody with similar relationships adivce me please?

Thank you

[maximelids]

Thanks for the advice people.
Really apriciate it.

Problem is that she does not have a webcam. But we have sent each other loads of photos, and have talked on the phone a few times. We communicate mostly by msn and skype.

However, it's kind of complicated to talk to her on the phone, espicially with different time zones. I stay up until 2a.m in the morning just to talk to her for a few minutes. This relationship has really changed my life, for the worst and best. Worst as in my sleeping pattern is messed up now, and it is kind of effecting my studies. Best as in I really think she is the one ! Tough people think we are kind of 'young' to be togethere, I am in my late teens and she is in her mid teens, we really love each other till the end of the world. We have even talked about marriage, which I hope will come true one day.

Her mother knows, but her dad is kind of over-protective towards her, so they do not 'dare' tell him yet.

My mother does not know yet, but she has given me total freedom since 16, so she won't really comment much on us.

[*Uronacid*]

Thanks for the advice people.
Really apriciate it.

Problem is that she does not have a webcam. But we have sent each other loads of photos, and have talked on the phone a few times. We communicate mostly by msn and skype.

However, it's kind of complicated to talk to her on the phone, espicially with different time zones. I stay up until 2a.m in the morning just to talk to her for a few minutes. This relationship has really changed my life, for the worst and best. Worst as in my sleeping pattern is messed up now, and it is kind of effecting my studies. Best as in I really think she is the one ! Tough people think we are kind of 'young' to be togethere, I am in my late teens and she is in her mid teens, we really love each other till the end of the world. We have even talked about marriage, which I hope will come true one day.

Her mother knows, but her dad is kind of over-protective towards her, so they do not 'dare' tell him yet.

My mother does not know yet, but she has given me total freedom since 16, so she won't really comment much on us.

damn dude... her dad doesn't even know, and you're going to fly down there... OMG, you are f**king crazy.