Supposed to or not? Options

[skillxz]

Hey, Just wonderin about a few things.

First off, if you're together, it a given that you guys are supposed to hang out n' lunch n' all, or could hangin around all happen afterschoo, and in class, and on times out n' stuff? I'm just not sure she'd feel confortable hangin out with all my friends at lunch, and mabey vice versa.

Also, when you 2 are riding together in a car n' stuff..and you're just driving and sorta mindless at the moment, or just thinking, or looking around just concentrating on driving, and its quiet between you two for awhile, is that considered sorta uncomfortable for her or you? I mean iono, any second of quietness seems sorta uncomfortable for me, like im thinkin of something to say or cuz of me thinking they think I have nothing to say.

Thanks in advance.

[skillxz]

Hey guys, I must say, Thanks a LOT for all your insanely quick responses...they really helped me understand what was normal and what wasn't, and set me on the right path.

You guys pretty much cleared up what I already thought with both questions, but through that, a few more popped up, I hope you dont mind. :P

But anyway, regarding the first, if we first got together, would a girl EXPECT to see me and sit with me the next day, or is that something we would have to work out?

And in regards to silence, dont get me wrong now, We talk a LOT..and I really mean a lot. In the car the music is ALWAYS on and we talk, but of course we can't keep the convo going 24/7..so I was just unsure if a few moments of silence was normal.

This therefore goes into other areas as well, such as just walking around, or hanging out with her. Do we always have to be talking, or can i just be holding her hand walking to school? Does a girl enjoy simply my company and the fact that im with her? Speaking of which, does she want me to hold her hand and openly hug her n' stuff?

As you can see I'm sorta inexperienced and insecure about a few things, I really appreciate your advice, really!

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1:But anyway, regarding the first, if we first got together, would a girl EXPECT to see me and sit with me the next day, or is that something we would have to work out?

2:And in regards to silence, dont get me wrong now, We talk a LOT..and I really mean a lot. In the car the music is ALWAYS on and we talk, but of course we can't keep the convo going 24/7..so I was just unsure if a few moments of silence was normal.

3:Do we always have to be talking, or can i just be holding her hand walking to school?

4:Does a girl enjoy simply my company and the fact that im with her?

5:Speaking of which, does she want me to hold her hand and openly hug her n' stuff?

1. I doubt it, but the best way to know for sure is to ask her. I think the best thing would be to do what you would normally do. Sit with your friends, and like on of the other members said, "Catch up with her on the last five minutes of lunch if you feel uneasy about it."

2. Moments or silence are normal.

3. No, you don't have to do either. The most important thing is that you be yourself. If you like holding her hand, then hold her hand. If you like talking to her, then talk to her. Most girls like their boyfriends to be comfortable around them. I would suggest you do whatever you feel most comfortable doing.

4. Most do.

5. Some do and some don't. I dated a girl who hated PDA (Public Display of Affection), and I dated a girl who loved it. The best thing you can do is ask her.