Supposed to or not? Options

[skillxz]

Hey, Just wonderin about a few things.

First off, if you're together, it a given that you guys are supposed to hang out n' lunch n' all, or could hangin around all happen afterschoo, and in class, and on times out n' stuff? I'm just not sure she'd feel confortable hangin out with all my friends at lunch, and mabey vice versa.

Also, when you 2 are riding together in a car n' stuff..and you're just driving and sorta mindless at the moment, or just thinking, or looking around just concentrating on driving, and its quiet between you two for awhile, is that considered sorta uncomfortable for her or you? I mean iono, any second of quietness seems sorta uncomfortable for me, like im thinkin of something to say or cuz of me thinking they think I have nothing to say.

Thanks in advance.

[*Uronacid*]

Hey, Just wonderin about a few things.

First off, if you're together, it a given that you guys are supposed to hang out n' lunch n' all, or could hangin around all happen afterschoo, and in class, and on times out n' stuff? I'm just not sure she'd feel confortable hangin out with all my friends at lunch, and mabey vice versa.

Also, when you 2 are riding together in a car n' stuff..and you're just driving and sorta mindless at the moment, or just thinking, or looking around just concentrating on driving, and its quiet between you two for awhile, is that considered sorta uncomfortable for her or you? I mean iono, any second of quietness seems sorta uncomfortable for me, like im thinkin of something to say or cuz of me thinking they think I have nothing to say.

Thanks in advance.

1. Dateing someone doesn't mean you have to be fused to that individual 24/7. In fact, it's good to have some space in your relationship so you can keep your individuality. If you enjoy sitting with your friends, then sit with your friends. If you are worried that she might think you're avoiding her, then go say hello to her every once and a little while and make sure she doesn't feel as if you are trying to ignore her.

2. Don't worry about it. You can't expect that you will always have something to say. Sometiems you just have times where you're both quiet. There's nothing wrong with that. Why don't you ask her what's on her mind, and just listen? If she's got nothing on her mind at the moment then don't worry about it. Just enjoy her company.