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i wanna be out going
dave chapp
post Jan 17 2007, 05:30 PM
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hey im quite shy, im not a p***k tho i have loadsa mates but one on one situations are awkward i wanna be realy out going any ideas? thanks xxxxxxx
 
 
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AngelinaTaylor
post Jan 19 2007, 07:32 AM
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QUOTE(brownsugar @ Jan 17 2007, 7:58 PM) *
If you're not outgoing, you're not gonna become outgoing. Some people are just shy.


That's not true. I used to be super-shy when I was little, and now I bet many people pray I would shut up.

Just surround yourself with people as much as you can until you get used to it. And talk.
 
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post Jan 19 2007, 07:11 PM
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QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Jan 19 2007, 7:32 AM) *
That's not true. I used to be super-shy when I was little, and now I bet many people pray I would shut up.

Just surround yourself with people as much as you can until you get used to it. And talk.


Maybe it's because you grew up into it. But once your character traits are set--they are pretty much that. Set. It is probably possible, but why try to be something else anyway?
 
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post Jan 19 2007, 07:28 PM
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QUOTE(brownsugar @ Jan 19 2007, 7:11 PM) *
Maybe it's because you grew up into it. But once your character traits are set--they are pretty much that. Set. It is probably possible, but why try to be something else anyway?


No necessarily, I mean you will probably never become as outgoing as someone who comes from that sort of background, but you can't practice your social skills and become more outgoing.
 
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post Jan 19 2007, 07:35 PM
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jan 19 2007, 7:28 PM) *
No necessarily, I mean you will probably never become as outgoing as someone who comes from that sort of background, but you can't practice your social skills and become more outgoing.


...What?

Do you mean "Can practice your social skills ?"

Anyways, you can try to be less shy but it's not going to be as natural as the person who is truly outgoing!

Angelina --
And talking a lot and being outgoing aren't the same thing. An outgoing person is confident, a good conversationalist, interesting and probably funny. People who talk a lot are annoying--not outgoing. Not to say you are annoying.
 
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post Jan 19 2007, 07:55 PM
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QUOTE(brownsugar @ Jan 19 2007, 7:35 PM) *
...What?

Do you mean "Can practice your social skills ?"

Anyways, you can try to be less shy but it's not going to be as natural as the person who is truly outgoing!

Angelina --
And talking a lot and being outgoing aren't the same thing. An outgoing person is confident, a good conversationalist, interesting and probably funny. People who talk a lot are annoying--not outgoing. Not to say you are annoying.


Right, but with practice it will become more and more natural.
 

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