The youngest age where itz wrong to lose it... Options

[lili29]

Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ???

[troublemaker36]

honestly..i think anything under 16 is too young..but theres some immature 16 year olds out there too..so it all depends on you. i lost mine two weeks ago and im 16. i dont regret it at all because i know i love him..and i plan on staying with him. i know anything can happen to change that but i felt ready.

and just because you know the facts about what can happen doesnt mean anything either. things happen to married couples that they aren't ready for either. accidents can happen whether your married or not.

the only reason your wondering if you were ready or not is because of what people are going to say. thats stupid. it's your personal decision..other people's opinions shouldn't matter. you love him..you stayed with him..and you still seem happy about it.

if this topic was written by a 13 year old then yeah..theres a problem. in my opinion they dont even know what dating is like. eating lunch together at school doesnt count as being in love. so i think only you know when your ready..coming to cb to ask a question like this usually just brings criticism..by some people.