What's the best way to show a girl that she doesn't have to be alone?, It's hard to explain Options

[MarkMcgeady]

Ok, so bare with me.

This girl I know apparently thinks that every guy she meets wants to be her friend, but never her boyfriend. I need to make her understand somehow that she is attractive and some guys would like to have her as a girlfriend.

I guess she thinks that guys don't find her attractive cuz she plays soccer alot, and likes the sport very much.

[*Uronacid*]

Dude, that's something she has to learn on her own. You can't change that.

If you don't like her more than a friend, just listen to her. Be a friend. Help her build her self-confidence. There's nothing wrong with being a supportive friend.

If you're thinking about asking her out just so you can solve her problems, think twice. Once you solve her problems you may end up in an empty relationship. Relationships based on problems are rarely good after those problems are solved.

If you like her for who she is and more than just a friend, then why not ask her out. It might be fun, but remember that she's insecure. Those insecurities may become frustrating. Will you be able to handle her?

BOTTOM LINE:

It's never bad to be a supportive friend. It may not be that big of a deal. Don't focus on it to much, or she might end up feeling like a problem/she might think you are annoying. Just act normal and have fun. If she wants to talk about it she'll open up. If you like her, ask her out (dating doesn't have to be super serious). Just make sure you're doing it for the right reasons (a.k.a. Don't do it to be her knight in shining armor.).