The youngest age where itz wrong to lose it... Options

[lili29]

Heii jus wonderin wat iz da age where it iz wayyyyyy 2 young 2 lose it cuz i alrede "done the do" [[if u get wat i mean]] n ik sum goody goody ppl r lyk datz way 2 young n othaz think itz fine so yea...... ??? n ik ppl will say itz lyk against God n u should w8 til marriage well yea ik all of diz but trust me i tried n i wanted it dat way but it didnt happen so yea ???

[mochafrescato]

Well, that's very nice.

In my eyes, you shouldn't have sex until you are married. That's something you should give to your husband, and once it's gone it can never be replaced. I think teens spread their legs too damn easily. There isn't a really a "youngest age". Like age 1 is too young, but age 14 is too young too. So until you are in a bond that will last a life time don't make decisions that come attached with responsibilities and consequences you can't handle.

I've had two friends that have gotten pregnant and honestly, I felt bad for them yeah..but in a way I didn't. If you can't handle adult responsibilities then don't do adult things. "Ohhh I'm wearing a condom". You can be on birth control, your guy could be wearing a condom, be on the pill, the patch whatever---and still get pregnant. Because they are not 100% effective, and the only thing that is 100% effective against STD's and pregnancy is abstinence.

Just look at your life in a timeline with the average human life expectancy.

<------5------10------15------20--------------------------------------------------------------------------------70--->

Teens are losing their virginity around 15 these days. Why would you want to f**k up so early in the timeline and catch an STD or get pregnant? I know we're not gonna all live 'till 70, but I want to. So I'm not gonna make big decisions too early in my life when I'm too young to understand them.
SO, to answer your question you are too young when you can't handle the consequences of what you're doing.

i totally agree. Thats the sensible thing to do.
Suzette. genious. (<not sure if i spelled that right, but oh well ;x)