WTF IS WRONG WITH PEOPLE!?, and it's not teenagers for once. Options

[*slammin shelby*]

Okay. So let me tell you.
Some of you know where I work. If you don't, I work at a bowling alley. We'll for about the past year everyone has pretty much called me the whore of T-Bowl. And not a joke. I was never cool with it, but I blew it off.

They started calling me that because New Years 2005 some really drunk guy pushed me into the bathroom and wanted me to go down on him. And I didn't want to but my friend Alex walked in and got me out of there. Well. Even tho I didn't do anything at all with him. He told all his little friends that I did give him head.

Well, after that all these guys were like 'Yeah come on I want a BJ' and I was like wtf. Then all the girls were like 'Jesus she's a whore'.

Yes I will admit I hooked up with a co-worker. But that was it. Besides that the honest to God last time I hooked up with anyone was 5 months ago. And that was with my boyfriend of 7 months. Who I DID NOT cheat on.

So yesterday at work, this guy comes up to me, I forget his name, but everyone calls him by his last name, Minski. He's cool I guess, I know him though Alex, and thats about it. I don't think he's hot or anything, but whatever.

So we are talking at work and he is like 'Oh lemme get your number and we can just hang out and stuff or whatev'. Idc. I gave it to him.

Later that night he IMs me and starts talking about how hott he thinks I am and how much he wanted to hook up with me after work and blah blah blah. I was like. Wtf is wrong with you. I don't do that. He said 'thats not what I hear' I asked him what he was talking about and he said, 'Oh from what people tell me you get around and are pretty easy.'

Well. Make a already long story short. One of my supervisors (whos in her late 40's and I work with her whore daughter) and all my co-workers and people I DONT EVEN KNOW are telling their guy friends how many guys I have f**ked and how I'll sleep with anyone.

Yeah thats um. Not true. Honestly. I have had sex with one person, one time. And I regret it and have decided not to have sex again until I'm married. Anyway, I got really upset. It's one thing for the kids there to be like 'You are such a whore'. With them I can blow it off, but with adults? It's f**ked the hell up.


Whatever. Anyone have anything like this happen?

[fameONE]

I've been known to embrace my sexuality a bit. And if I'm single and responsible about it, I don't see a problem with having a little fun. it's consensual and I'm not leading anyone on. Well, if you're within a given community, whether it be high school, college, military or hanging out at the same spot night in and night out, word travels fast. We all know that given that CB is the same way. The downside of this is that if someone has an idea, no matter how twisted, of what you're doing, they're going to discuss it amongst those that they know. So when it comes down to digressing and not doing all the wild things that you (err, I, in this case) once did, you're going to get heat for it and people will run their mouths.

I don't have any regrets about what I've done in my life. I don't see a reason to regret that which I cannot change because those experiences and happenings have helped mold me into who I am today. Am I going to jump the gun and tell my kids that I've done an adult video or that I partied so hard that I couldn't remember what happened the entire weekend? Not off the bat, but the conversation will eventually come up because I'm not ashamed of anything in my past. The best way to handle it, in my opinion, is to surround yourself with people who know and understand you. Then make a conscious effort not to let those acquaintances that are only around you when things are going well into your inner circle.

When you do this, it's a lot easier to blow people off. Moving three times a year doesn't hurt, either.