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babygirl321
post Jan 10 2007, 11:18 PM
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Hey,
I am 16 and just got my first boyfriend. We have been going out for alittle over 3 months. I love him so much. He doesn't really talk much beause he is shy and I am also. We don't really hang out because he hasnt gotten his car yet. I kind of feel sad because we don't hang out alot but I get over it. We haven't been out on a real date yet. We have never kissed and I was wondering because he is so shy how can I bring it up? I wanna kiss him but I don't know. I don't like to make the first move but I might have to. My friends talk to him about kissing me and he said that it is because he is affraid. What can I do to make him not affraid? Thanks for the help!
 
 
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misanthropist
post Jan 11 2007, 04:09 AM
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First off, I'm incredibly confused as to how you can claim to "love him so much," if you don't even 1.) Talk to him 2.) Hang out with him 3.) Have never kissed him 4.) You both are shy. After personal experience, I think you should get the nerve up to communicate with him. As in friendships, it's also significant for romantic relationships. I suggest that you start with an alternative medium, such as Instant Messaging/phone, or something where you can't necessarily see the person, and drop some hints. Once he feels comfortable talking about it with you, it's likely that he will be comfortable getting the nerve to kiss you in person. Try it.
 

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In Love!   Boyfriend Advice!   Jan 10 2007, 11:18 PM
peggysturr   Maybe you really should make the first move. Just ...   Jan 10 2007, 11:27 PM
thousandsummers   hmmm. trick him point behind him and say ...   Jan 10 2007, 11:45 PM
x_y0urElectrikk   QUOTE(thousandsummers @ Jan 10 2007, 11:4...   Jan 15 2007, 12:46 PM
lanbexx   ... do you hold hands??? if you dont, thats just s...   Jan 10 2007, 11:58 PM
miiichellley   You really should try to find time with this guy e...   Jan 11 2007, 12:59 AM
Uronacid   Don't rush it. Find out if he wants to kiss yo...   Jan 11 2007, 01:09 AM
JakeKKing   Okay. I'm gonna tell you what to do. First of ...   Jan 11 2007, 01:38 AM
communist daughter   First off, I'm incredibly confused as to how y...   Jan 11 2007, 04:09 AM
icy_wonderland   QUOTE(In Love! @ Jan 11 2007, 12:18 P...   Jan 11 2007, 04:28 AM
unconfirmed_existance   The butthead I'm with had some trouble with th...   Jan 11 2007, 05:36 PM
JenxCrazii   hrmm...go to a peace ful and nice area on a date; ...   Jan 12 2007, 07:19 PM
lanbexx   ^ LOL what unrealistic romantic bullshit   Jan 12 2007, 09:39 PM
a painefull euphoria   QUOTE(lanbexx @ Jan 12 2007, 8:39 PM) ^ L...   Jan 13 2007, 10:28 AM
french_fries   just ask him to hang out one weekend...go get ice ...   Jan 12 2007, 10:45 PM
x___F0RG0TTEN   i heard guys like it when you make the first move ...   Jan 12 2007, 11:32 PM
Intercourse   Maybe you two are still not comfortable enough wit...   Jan 13 2007, 01:09 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(Intercourse @ Jan 13 2007, 1:09 AM)...   Jan 13 2007, 01:42 AM
Fragil_BlackRose   Push him up against a wall, rip off his shirt, and...   Jan 13 2007, 12:33 PM
Ryan Ross Panic At The Disco   Well I suggest you don't rush him. You never k...   Jan 15 2007, 01:15 AM


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