Boyfriend Advice! |
Boyfriend Advice! |
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![]() Newbie ![]() Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 494,456 ![]() |
Hey,
I am 16 and just got my first boyfriend. We have been going out for alittle over 3 months. I love him so much. He doesn't really talk much beause he is shy and I am also. We don't really hang out because he hasnt gotten his car yet. I kind of feel sad because we don't hang out alot but I get over it. We haven't been out on a real date yet. We have never kissed and I was wondering because he is so shy how can I bring it up? I wanna kiss him but I don't know. I don't like to make the first move but I might have to. My friends talk to him about kissing me and he said that it is because he is affraid. What can I do to make him not affraid? Thanks for the help! |
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![]() Senior Member ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 111,264 ![]() |
First off, I'm incredibly confused as to how you can claim to "love him so much," if you don't even 1.) Talk to him 2.) Hang out with him 3.) Have never kissed him 4.) You both are shy. After personal experience, I think you should get the nerve up to communicate with him. As in friendships, it's also significant for romantic relationships. I suggest that you start with an alternative medium, such as Instant Messaging/phone, or something where you can't necessarily see the person, and drop some hints. Once he feels comfortable talking about it with you, it's likely that he will be comfortable getting the nerve to kiss you in person. Try it.
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