Boyfriend Advice! |
 Jan 10 2007, 11:18 PM
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Hey,
I am 16 and just got my first boyfriend. We have been going out for alittle over 3 months. I love him so much. He doesn't really talk much beause he is shy and I am also. We don't really hang out because he hasnt gotten his car yet. I kind of feel sad because we don't hang out alot but I get over it. We haven't been out on a real date yet. We have never kissed and I was wondering because he is so shy how can I bring it up? I wanna kiss him but I don't know. I don't like to make the first move but I might have to. My friends talk to him about kissing me and he said that it is because he is affraid. What can I do to make him not affraid? Thanks for the help! |
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Jan 11 2007, 01:38 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
Okay. I'm gonna tell you what to do. First of all. Don't be shy. If you're shy he'll be shy. It's like the opposite of a magnet. Make eye contact often, if you don't already. That helps. It makes him know you want him to kiss you. Or you could just tell him that you want him to kiss you. haha. Seriously. I've gotten out of some pretty awkward situations like that.
Well, you don't need to go on dates. You're obviously going steady. You've been steady for three months. You don't need dates. They're nice every once in a while for some people, but I don't really go on dates. So, whatever. If you want to, then plan one. Dates are really to get to know some body and I'm sure you really already know him. I think that I already told you how to make him not afraid. Give him confidence. Eye contact. Verbal communication. Get rid of that shyness. I have that and it's really un attractive to a point. But just work on those things. It'll help. If it doesn't I'm sorry. |
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x_y0urElectrikk QUOTE(thousandsummers @ Jan 10 2007, 11:4... Jan 15 2007, 12:46 PM lanbexx ... do you hold hands??? if you dont, thats just s... Jan 10 2007, 11:58 PM miiichellley You really should try to find time with this guy e... Jan 11 2007, 12:59 AM Uronacid Don't rush it. Find out if he wants to kiss yo... Jan 11 2007, 01:09 AM communist daughter First off, I'm incredibly confused as to how y... Jan 11 2007, 04:09 AM icy_wonderland QUOTE(In Love! @ Jan 11 2007, 12:18 P... Jan 11 2007, 04:28 AM unconfirmed_existance The butthead I'm with had some trouble with th... Jan 11 2007, 05:36 PM JenxCrazii hrmm...go to a peace ful and nice area on a date;
... Jan 12 2007, 07:19 PM lanbexx ^ LOL what unrealistic romantic bullshit Jan 12 2007, 09:39 PM a painefull euphoria QUOTE(lanbexx @ Jan 12 2007, 8:39 PM) ^ L... Jan 13 2007, 10:28 AM french_fries just ask him to hang out one weekend...go get ice ... Jan 12 2007, 10:45 PM x___F0RG0TTEN i heard guys like it when you make the first move ... Jan 12 2007, 11:32 PM Intercourse Maybe you two are still not comfortable enough wit... Jan 13 2007, 01:09 AM Uronacid QUOTE(Intercourse @ Jan 13 2007, 1:09 AM)... Jan 13 2007, 01:42 AM Fragil_BlackRose Push him up against a wall, rip off his shirt, and... Jan 13 2007, 12:33 PM Ryan Ross Panic At The Disco Well I suggest you don't rush him. You never k... Jan 15 2007, 01:15 AM |
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