Forgive or just simply forget?, I can't take the feeling I get from seeing him anymore. Options

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What I have just done a year ago stirred within me.
Bothered me to put it in simple words.
There was a boy named Tuan. We had a english class together,
he liked me and I was in the process of getting to know him
to see if it was a guy worth diving into a relationship with.

But as I got closer to this person the more I found out about him.
But then suddenly lies and truth got mixed up and
I got so confused on what to believe him or his friend
who were giving me two completely different stories.

I'm known as quite a oblivious girl at school,
so I perfer to have friends that don't take advantage of me
by lying to me and snicker at the fact they can get away by doing so.
And who wants to be friends with a snake with a forked tongue correct?
Well, I got frusterated by all the things tuan was telling me was true,
and his friend telling me what Tuan said was false.

So I made one topic, the last straw. I gave Tuan a secret online,
gave it only to him. I told him not to tell a soul about it.
Only to find out as I went to the mall somehow his
friend happened to know this only a few days later.

I took that as the tie breaker between trusting Tuan or trusting his friend.
I was hurt that one of the two lied to me, and finding someone
responcible for one of their crimes, I didn't want to start trouble by hurting them
physically or verbally.. But still upset that perhaps Tuan was the liar
feeding me simple lies all along. I broke off what friendship I had
with Tuan and gave him the cold turkey ever since.

It's been a year since then and I don't know
whether my actions a year ago was right or wrong.
Everytime I see the kid, I'm reminded of what
happened for us not to even talk anymore.
It's been bothering me for awhile, I wonder if it was
about time I did something to get it off my chest..

Createblog, do you think what I did was too servere
and I should forgive the guy and apologise for being so harsh
or perhaps I am better off not talking to the person?

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this is probably the best thing that you can do. First if you really want to talk to him just do it. then you can ask him about things he told you a year before BUT dont remind him about what he said. If its a lie then you will know because the story will change and no matter what not everyone can remeber thier lies especially if its a numerous amount (stories tend to change) and if its the truth the story will be the same even a year later of you guys not talking. Well i would stop believeing Tuan's friend because he seems like a backstabber and a guy who just wants drama. How about getting someone else who you trust 100% and ask them to go and ask Tuan about him you can also know if he just tells you one story and he tells other people some other story.

I dont know, but if he really wanted something he would have asked you whats up and why you guys are not talking and then have a serious talk with his friend in front of you.