Forgive or just simply forget?, I can't take the feeling I get from seeing him anymore. Options

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What I have just done a year ago stirred within me.
Bothered me to put it in simple words.
There was a boy named Tuan. We had a english class together,
he liked me and I was in the process of getting to know him
to see if it was a guy worth diving into a relationship with.

But as I got closer to this person the more I found out about him.
But then suddenly lies and truth got mixed up and
I got so confused on what to believe him or his friend
who were giving me two completely different stories.

I'm known as quite a oblivious girl at school,
so I perfer to have friends that don't take advantage of me
by lying to me and snicker at the fact they can get away by doing so.
And who wants to be friends with a snake with a forked tongue correct?
Well, I got frusterated by all the things tuan was telling me was true,
and his friend telling me what Tuan said was false.

So I made one topic, the last straw. I gave Tuan a secret online,
gave it only to him. I told him not to tell a soul about it.
Only to find out as I went to the mall somehow his
friend happened to know this only a few days later.

I took that as the tie breaker between trusting Tuan or trusting his friend.
I was hurt that one of the two lied to me, and finding someone
responcible for one of their crimes, I didn't want to start trouble by hurting them
physically or verbally.. But still upset that perhaps Tuan was the liar
feeding me simple lies all along. I broke off what friendship I had
with Tuan and gave him the cold turkey ever since.

It's been a year since then and I don't know
whether my actions a year ago was right or wrong.
Everytime I see the kid, I'm reminded of what
happened for us not to even talk anymore.
It's been bothering me for awhile, I wonder if it was
about time I did something to get it off my chest..

Createblog, do you think what I did was too servere
and I should forgive the guy and apologise for being so harsh
or perhaps I am better off not talking to the person?

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Note: I want to thank everyone for expressing their opinion on this topic,
you helped me better understand my situation and come up with a solution.

I'm 90% certain I should leave things the way they are since
things seem to be going so well without Tuan, friend or not.

Fragil_BlackRose ---> I'm sorry you have to deal with that.
Must be so annoying having that guy bug your boyfriend.

Thanks for sharing your opinion/personal stories.

LostRenaissance---> I guess love and liking people make people do crazy things..
But the fact that you have to try and be someone else for the person to like you.
And lying when a person asks you for the truth? I'd be fine with the truth as long as it is the truth..

You are right about one thing, I should leave stuff like this behind..
I just tend to be the sort of person who wants to look back on things
to improve who I am as a person. So looking at Tuan from now
and then makes me wonder if it was the right thing to do
if someone else was in my situation.

Uronacid--> This happening a year ago it's hard to remember
the way I really felt at the time about the subject.. It probably
seemed right to me at the time.. But now that a year has past
I feel a lot different about things and I forget the feelings that justified what I done.

To be honest, I feel like he's somewhat of a coward.
When someone finds fault it seems like a convient excuse pops up,
not to mention now and then a person tells my female friend
how Tuan has been saying horrible things about
her that makes me doubt him as a person.

guessewho---> Ahahaha I would love to do so,
but it's difficult if you have a class with this person,
hang out with the same group of friends or a sport..
From time to time you have to cooperate with the person making
it very difficult when you don't want to talk to the person..

xmoon_lightx---> Ahahaha he seems alright from far away..
Do I think he's worth it? I can't say..