Forgive or just simply forget?, I can't take the feeling I get from seeing him anymore. Options

[unconfirmed_exis...]

What I have just done a year ago stirred within me.
Bothered me to put it in simple words.
There was a boy named Tuan. We had a english class together,
he liked me and I was in the process of getting to know him
to see if it was a guy worth diving into a relationship with.

But as I got closer to this person the more I found out about him.
But then suddenly lies and truth got mixed up and
I got so confused on what to believe him or his friend
who were giving me two completely different stories.

I'm known as quite a oblivious girl at school,
so I perfer to have friends that don't take advantage of me
by lying to me and snicker at the fact they can get away by doing so.
And who wants to be friends with a snake with a forked tongue correct?
Well, I got frusterated by all the things tuan was telling me was true,
and his friend telling me what Tuan said was false.

So I made one topic, the last straw. I gave Tuan a secret online,
gave it only to him. I told him not to tell a soul about it.
Only to find out as I went to the mall somehow his
friend happened to know this only a few days later.

I took that as the tie breaker between trusting Tuan or trusting his friend.
I was hurt that one of the two lied to me, and finding someone
responcible for one of their crimes, I didn't want to start trouble by hurting them
physically or verbally.. But still upset that perhaps Tuan was the liar
feeding me simple lies all along. I broke off what friendship I had
with Tuan and gave him the cold turkey ever since.

It's been a year since then and I don't know
whether my actions a year ago was right or wrong.
Everytime I see the kid, I'm reminded of what
happened for us not to even talk anymore.
It's been bothering me for awhile, I wonder if it was
about time I did something to get it off my chest..

Createblog, do you think what I did was too servere
and I should forgive the guy and apologise for being so harsh
or perhaps I am better off not talking to the person?

[LostRenaissance]

well there can be 2 sides
1. Tuan lied to u about stuff to make him self look good in front of you to "impress" u. and the friend is being a good guy and trying ot protect u.
2. Tuan is actully not lying but telling u the truth and since they are good friends his buddy uses their friendship and tell u lies to make him look bad in front of u maybe either he likes u or something.


Since wats done is done its better to move on and stop thinking about these things, its the past leave it move on.

P.S: guys do tend to change for the girl they like to someone that "fits" the girl they like the best.