im 16 years old and pregnant, i dunno what to do, advice please :'( |
im 16 years old and pregnant, i dunno what to do, advice please :'( |
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I beacame member here to share my problem with sb.
I'm 16 years old and i got pregnant. My boyfriend forced me to have sex and refused to use a condom. Now, I'm pregnant and i really dunno what to do. I don't wanna get an abortion. But i just can't imagine how my life will be with a baby. I'm too young to be a mother. i doubt if a teenager is able to raise and take care of a child. My bf left me right after i told him. My parents will kick me out of the house if they find out. I'm desperate. Please, if anyone has been thru the same thing or knows a girl that has, give me advice. I' need to talk to someone who has been in the same place but i imagine that there's not any girl who has really given birth to a child at such a young age. anyway.. i want to take some advice. thank u for reading my post. please help me. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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The school I go to has a ton of young mothers. I am by no means, comparing you to them. Regardless of what you chose to do your parents will find out and I think it's best to tell them rather than to live with that kind of guilt. Let your parents know what happened. It was rape. You were not comfortable with the situation and yet your so called boyfriend continued with his actions. It was wrong but that doesn't mean that what has happened to you is your fault. I admire you for not getting an abortion. If you have made the decision not to I suggest you stick with it.
In the end, it's your choice. You always have the option of adoption. I would strongly suggest that you tell your parents what happened and the result of it. They may not be happy but they will probably end up being your strongest support and biggest influence on the situation. They can work with your school to make special arrangements for you. (Depending on how far along you are.) |
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