im 16 years old and pregnant, i dunno what to do, advice please :'( |
 Jan 5 2007, 05:07 AM
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I beacame member here to share my problem with sb.
I'm 16 years old and i got pregnant. My boyfriend forced me to have sex and refused to use a condom. Now, I'm pregnant and i really dunno what to do. I don't wanna get an abortion. But i just can't imagine how my life will be with a baby. I'm too young to be a mother. i doubt if a teenager is able to raise and take care of a child. My bf left me right after i told him. My parents will kick me out of the house if they find out. I'm desperate. Please, if anyone has been thru the same thing or knows a girl that has, give me advice. I' need to talk to someone who has been in the same place but i imagine that there's not any girl who has really given birth to a child at such a young age. anyway.. i want to take some advice. thank u for reading my post. please help me. 
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Jan 5 2007, 04:49 PM
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wow im sorry this is happeneing to you i know this girl she got pregnant at 13 and had the babygurl at 14 and she was able to do it but the difference is that she was willing but if she can do it any one can... my sister just had a baby but she's 25ish and he's so adorable babies are a blessing believe it or not ... and whatever you do do NOT get an abortion that's a human being inside of you ;it had a heart beat and all. i know how you feel becuase i once thought i was turned out i wasn't but it still scared me. you have to tetll youre parents and if it wanst willling then it's rape and you should tell the police and they'll put him in jail. if that's what you want and if not then they can at least make him pay child support. if you dont want to be a parent so young then put the baby up for adoption keep that as your last choice because if you do that you'll never see him/her again and after 9 months of pain and having the baby you love so much im sure you wouldnt want that... so yea talk to a guidance counselor from school maybe? if you're 16 then i dont think you're parents can kick you out of their house because i think that's against the law [[i think]] and if they do im sure becuase of youre age there are alot of places that will help maybe friends too??? hope this helped ooo and one more thing you'd be surprised about youre parents my mom found out something about me that i thought she was going to have a heart attack about and kick me out of my house but she didnt we had arguments for about a week and she got over it so maybe she wont reeact as bad as you think
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Jan 6 2007, 12:08 AM
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QUOTE(PRiiNC3SA @ Jan 5 2007, 4:49 PM)  wow im sorry this is happeneing to you i know this girl she got pregnant at 13 and had the babygurl at 14 and she was able to do it but the difference is that she was willing but if she can do it any one can... my sister just had a baby but she's 25ish and he's so adorable babies are a blessing believe it or not ... and whatever you do do NOT get an abortion that's a human being inside of you ;it had a heart beat and all. i know how you feel becuase i once thought i was turned out i wasn't but it still scared me. you have to tetll youre parents and if it wanst willling then it's rape and you should tell the police and they'll put him in jail. if that's what you want and if not then they can at least make him pay child support. if you dont want to be a parent so young then put the baby up for adoption keep that as your last choice because if you do that you'll never see him/her again and after 9 months of pain and having the baby you love so much im sure you wouldnt want that... so yea talk to a guidance counselor from school maybe? if you're 16 then i dont think you're parents can kick you out of their house because i think that's against the law [[i think]] and if they do im sure becuase of youre age there are alot of places that will help maybe friends too??? hope this helped ooo and one more thing you'd be surprised about youre parents my mom found out something about me that i thought she was going to have a heart attack about and kick me out of my house but she didnt we had arguments for about a week and she got over it so maybe she wont reeact as bad as you think Pro-tip: Punctuation increases the readability of your posts. |
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sky in heaven im 16 years old and pregnant Jan 5 2007, 05:07 AM
deus_ex_machina Oh dang, you're in a terrible position right n... Jan 5 2007, 06:37 AM Beauty in a Tragedy I'm sorry, this must be horrible for you.
If ... Jan 5 2007, 07:11 AM My Cinderella. You're in a tough position right now. I think ... Jan 5 2007, 07:46 AM kryogenix DON'T GET AN ABORTION <--- click Jan 5 2007, 08:09 AM a painefull euphoria you need to really tell them everything that happe... Jan 5 2007, 08:21 AM Uronacid You're young, that's statutory rape even i... Jan 5 2007, 10:00 AM
JakeKKing QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jan 5 2007, 10:00 AM) Yo... Jan 27 2007, 03:08 AM Blue apple oh, god. this's tough.
i really dunno what to ... Jan 5 2007, 10:02 AM Angelina Taylor Well.. good luck, mate.
P.S. You should've cu... Jan 5 2007, 10:14 AM **Lucy* i have actually been in the same situation.
Only i... Jan 5 2007, 10:26 AM _tiara QUOTE(**Lucy* @ Jan 5 2007, 7:26 AM) i ha... Jan 5 2007, 02:45 PM miiichellley Wow, i'm sorry. This is really hard for you.
... Jan 5 2007, 02:50 PM Jeng what i would do is get help, tell someone, a stran... Jan 5 2007, 03:15 PM LostRenaissance o man... srry, yea u should talk to ur parents abo... Jan 5 2007, 03:36 PM T0rmented_Soul you don't want to get an abortion, but that... Jan 5 2007, 03:51 PM LostRenaissance hmmm i'm christian so i'm against abortion... Jan 5 2007, 04:15 PM WHIMSICAL 0NE The school I go to has a ton of young mothers. I a... Jan 6 2007, 12:29 AM gles_so_def You're going to eventually have to tell your p... Jan 6 2007, 12:46 AM _sarcastic_ i am so sorry this happened to you.
like what eve... Jan 6 2007, 01:02 AM Classy_Lightning my mom was 14 when she got pregnant with me and 15... Jan 27 2007, 01:26 AM |
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