perfection, a problem? Options

[LoST SouL]

ok umm i poseted sumthin bout my b/f gettin braces rite but now i have a another problem well i tlked 2 him bout braces n it kame 2 the poitnwe were tlkin bout how he wanted 2 perfect himself n how i didn like perfection like he keeps tlkin bout how he relly dun need braces but wants then 2 perfectly straight out his teeth n how he wants his teeth 2 b pearly white n how hes gotta work out more 2 so as he kud get a six pack n buy new kloth so he kud look jig... now i undastand he wants tat but his teeth rnt tat yellow rnt tat crooked hes relly skinny hes 5' 11'' n 140lbs.. n like everytime 1 of his friends gets sum hot new kloths its like he gotta get it 2 his in competiton 2 b the most jig person in skool.. sumtims its like bein jig takes ova him..
newayz for me y wud ne1 need 2 perfect themselves who kares wat other ppl think?...if sum1 dun like u 4 who u r screw them... rite? weel it also kame 2 the poitn were i started thinkin i went out wit him kus he didn kare wat other think he bought wat he liked n didn seek the need 4 perfection like i usta at the time... n now hes suddenly changin n im not sayin that i love him less.. like i love him more n more evceryday...
...but y the sudden need 4 perfection?

[COLDasICE]

Yeah, my boyfriend is kinda like that except the part of being competitive towards his friends.. I encourage him to be a little different.. Yeah he says he wants to be perfect for me but I tell him that I fell love him for who he is, not for looks. He can be insecure about himself but I tell him it's okay.. I mean everyone has to be insecure about something right?! Anyways, ask him specifically why he wants to be perfect..