boyfriend going to college Options

[shannoniwamoto]

My boyfriend and i have been together for a little bit more than half a year and we're one year apart... he's a senior and i'm a junior.. lately i have been worrying about how our relationship's gonna end up being like when he's off to college, we've talked about this before and we both agreed to try to work it out, but we also talked about the "ifs" .. like " if something happens .. " it saddens me.. to know someone who's so great and everything might leave me in .. 6 months i mean there's still like alot of time and i know i probably shouldnt be worryin about this so early, but i've just been thinking alot lately, is this weird? and has this ever happened to anyone before? ... thx

[raenbow*]

I was dating a senior when I was a junior - I had to break up with him when he started goin to college - ONLY based upon the fact that my love for him was changing into a more friend-love. Just think about your relationship. Right now, I am currently dating a freshman in college, and I'm a senior. I guess I'm just lettin you know about it if you do decide to stay together. It. is. hard. If you really love him then it hurts incredibly much - but its DEFINITELY worth it. We talk every day, send emails etc. School breaks are so much better - so much fun. Also, if he is away you can focus on school and sorta help yourself in the long run while still having someone to love who loves you back. It basically depends on your relationship... you NEED to talk to him and see how much he cares/how strong it is.