im 16 years old and pregnant, i dunno what to do, advice please :'( |
im 16 years old and pregnant, i dunno what to do, advice please :'( |
Jan 5 2007, 05:07 AM
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I beacame member here to share my problem with sb.
I'm 16 years old and i got pregnant. My boyfriend forced me to have sex and refused to use a condom. Now, I'm pregnant and i really dunno what to do. I don't wanna get an abortion. But i just can't imagine how my life will be with a baby. I'm too young to be a mother. i doubt if a teenager is able to raise and take care of a child. My bf left me right after i told him. My parents will kick me out of the house if they find out. I'm desperate. Please, if anyone has been thru the same thing or knows a girl that has, give me advice. I' need to talk to someone who has been in the same place but i imagine that there's not any girl who has really given birth to a child at such a young age. anyway.. i want to take some advice. thank u for reading my post. please help me. |
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Jan 5 2007, 03:51 PM
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you don't want to get an abortion, but that's always a choice. Right now you are worried and stressed combining those two emotions together can be really hard and painful. I understand your point of view of how you seem to view your life in the future if the baby is born. You are limited to choices and choices you may not like. But you can't hide from them no matter how hard you try to avoid them, it's an obstacle in life you have to find the courage to overcome. I can't believe that your parents are willing to throw you out if you told them you were pregant. I mean why would they, your their daughter and they should you support you 100%. If your really terrified in telling your parents Abortion may be the best option, it's free and confidential. Don't beat yourself down, be strong, be wise, and think things through. Your head may be clouded right now, but I hope some of this advice here may open a clear view into somethinking you should do on your own. I wish you the very best and good luck.
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sky in heaven im 16 years old and pregnant Jan 5 2007, 05:07 AM
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kryogenix DON'T GET AN ABORTION <--- click Jan 5 2007, 08:09 AM
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Uronacid You're young, that's statutory rape even i... Jan 5 2007, 10:00 AM
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Blue apple oh, god. this's tough.
i really dunno what to ... Jan 5 2007, 10:02 AM
Angelina Taylor Well.. good luck, mate.
P.S. You should've cu... Jan 5 2007, 10:14 AM
**Lucy* i have actually been in the same situation.
Only i... Jan 5 2007, 10:26 AM
_tiara QUOTE(**Lucy* @ Jan 5 2007, 7:26 AM) i ha... Jan 5 2007, 02:45 PM
miiichellley Wow, i'm sorry. This is really hard for you.
... Jan 5 2007, 02:50 PM
Jeng what i would do is get help, tell someone, a stran... Jan 5 2007, 03:15 PM
LostRenaissance o man... srry, yea u should talk to ur parents abo... Jan 5 2007, 03:36 PM
LostRenaissance hmmm i'm christian so i'm against abortion... Jan 5 2007, 04:15 PM
PRiiNC3SA wow im sorry this is happeneing to you i know this... Jan 5 2007, 04:49 PM
kryogenix QUOTE(PRiiNC3SA @ Jan 5 2007, 4:49 PM) wo... Jan 6 2007, 12:08 AM
WHIMSICAL 0NE The school I go to has a ton of young mothers. I a... Jan 6 2007, 12:29 AM
gles_so_def You're going to eventually have to tell your p... Jan 6 2007, 12:46 AM
_sarcastic_ i am so sorry this happened to you.
like what eve... Jan 6 2007, 01:02 AM
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