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im 16 years old and pregnant, i dunno what to do, advice please :'(
sky in heaven
post Jan 5 2007, 05:07 AM
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I beacame member here to share my problem with sb.
I'm 16 years old and i got pregnant. My boyfriend forced me to have sex and refused to use a condom.
Now, I'm pregnant and i really dunno what to do.
I don't wanna get an abortion.
But i just can't imagine how my life will be with a baby.
I'm too young to be a mother.
i doubt if a teenager is able to raise and take care of a child.
My bf left me right after i told him. My parents will kick me out of the house if they find out.
I'm desperate.
Please, if anyone has been thru the same thing or knows a girl that has, give me advice.
I' need to talk to someone who has been in the same place but i imagine that there's not any girl who has really given birth to a child at such a young age. anyway..
i want to take some advice. thank u for reading my post.

please help me.


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littleswallow
post Jan 5 2007, 06:37 AM
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Oh dang, you're in a terrible position right now. I'm not going to waste time reprimanding you for your mistake though. I think you should tell your parents. I know you said they'll probably kick you out but it's worth a try; you will really need their support right now.

I praise you though, for not getting an abortion. But you must understand that the child you are carrying right now is your responsibility; it is the consequence of your actions. If you can't take care of the child... I guess you can put him/her up for adoption?

Don't think you are alone in this problem, cause I know people who have gone through the same situation you're experiencing right now. All of them though, decided to keep their babies.

I dunno, you don't have to follow my advice, it's just what I think. Good luck!
 

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sky in heaven   im 16 years old and pregnant   Jan 5 2007, 05:07 AM
deus_ex_machina   Oh dang, you're in a terrible position right n...   Jan 5 2007, 06:37 AM
Beauty in a Tragedy   I'm sorry, this must be horrible for you. If ...   Jan 5 2007, 07:11 AM
My Cinderella.   You're in a tough position right now. I think ...   Jan 5 2007, 07:46 AM
kryogenix   DON'T GET AN ABORTION <--- click   Jan 5 2007, 08:09 AM
a painefull euphoria   you need to really tell them everything that happe...   Jan 5 2007, 08:21 AM
Uronacid   You're young, that's statutory rape even i...   Jan 5 2007, 10:00 AM
JakeKKing   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jan 5 2007, 10:00 AM) Yo...   Jan 27 2007, 03:08 AM
Blue apple   oh, god. this's tough. i really dunno what to ...   Jan 5 2007, 10:02 AM
Angelina Taylor   Well.. good luck, mate. P.S. You should've cu...   Jan 5 2007, 10:14 AM
**Lucy*   i have actually been in the same situation. Only i...   Jan 5 2007, 10:26 AM
_tiara   QUOTE(**Lucy* @ Jan 5 2007, 7:26 AM) i ha...   Jan 5 2007, 02:45 PM
miiichellley   Wow, i'm sorry. This is really hard for you. ...   Jan 5 2007, 02:50 PM
Jeng   what i would do is get help, tell someone, a stran...   Jan 5 2007, 03:15 PM
LostRenaissance   o man... srry, yea u should talk to ur parents abo...   Jan 5 2007, 03:36 PM
T0rmented_Soul   you don't want to get an abortion, but that...   Jan 5 2007, 03:51 PM
LostRenaissance   hmmm i'm christian so i'm against abortion...   Jan 5 2007, 04:15 PM
PRiiNC3SA   wow im sorry this is happeneing to you i know this...   Jan 5 2007, 04:49 PM
kryogenix   QUOTE(PRiiNC3SA @ Jan 5 2007, 4:49 PM) wo...   Jan 6 2007, 12:08 AM
WHIMSICAL 0NE   The school I go to has a ton of young mothers. I a...   Jan 6 2007, 12:29 AM
gles_so_def   You're going to eventually have to tell your p...   Jan 6 2007, 12:46 AM
_sarcastic_   i am so sorry this happened to you. like what eve...   Jan 6 2007, 01:02 AM
Classy_Lightning   my mom was 14 when she got pregnant with me and 15...   Jan 27 2007, 01:26 AM


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