selfishness and jealousy, a friend in need... Options

[inn0centmarianne]

of help, okay, well i have this friend, shes a few months younger than me, and shes been in "love" with this so called guy, lets call him "c" and ever since 6th grade, she has liked him, he liked her for a short period of time, but got over her, he broke her heart. now my friend met all these other guys, "J"& "a" and now theres a "k" shes currently cheating on "a" with "k" and its pissing me off, shes hurting all these guys, plus, now one of our close friends "kris" likes "c" and "c" likes "kris" back, my friend finds out and trips about this, shes jealous, and being selfish, she wants THREE guys at the same time, how the heck do I help her? I dont want her to be hurt, but she has to learn her lesson, i mean, what if ALL of these guys find out what shes up to, and she ends up with NO ONE, ugh, help me please?

[kewljeans]

dang.. if the guy or is it guy (sorta confused) finds out that your friend is cheating.. i dont think your friend would want to stick around anymore...
tell her that this isnt the right way to approach things.. maybe because her mom left her when she was a lil girl... explains why she needs a lot of guys. shes afraid that one will leave.. thus if one does she'll have the other two or whatnot.. as a friend and as her "substitute mom" you have to show that you're always there for her.. even if you dont want to be.. and i mean its not impossible to fall in love when you're young.. my friend's parents went out in the 5th grade and eventually got married..but i suggest you talk things out with your friend.. not all at once.. but one step at a time.. hopefully things will turn out aiite..