something about love Options

[janerz14]

WHAT IS LOVE?? How do we knew if it's love? How do we know if it's just some kindd of infatuation? Love is as scary thing to some people. Even the word can make anyone run because along with LOVE comes HURT. no one ever wants to get hurt. That alone will make anyone flat out run. Love is what we searched for all our lives. For someone to have and to hold and for someone to love. A someone who makes us complete. A someone who can make us whole an individual. Just being close to that someone. To know that they are right there every minute of every day. to be able to touch their face, and hear their heartbeat. to be soothed by their voice, to hold them close, smell their scent and taste their skin, to be able to look into their eyes and see everything i feel for them be reflected back at me. Having someone to love and knowing that someone loves you back That is the most beautiful place in the world to be. So, What is love??..... LOVE comes in every shape an form. LOVE lies in the eyes of the beholder LOVE is what ever you want it to be. LOVE is LOVE.

[Aerosoul]

I don't think love is when you go to sleep at night because you can't stop thinking about him/her, that is affection
I don't think love is when you think you're "in love" but you actually are in love of what he/she looks like, that's lusting.
I don't think love is when you're together, you feel a conection and then say something about it later, that's fondness.
I don't think love is when you say you love him but get over him in a week or so, that's a crush.
I don't think love is when you're heartbeat beats faster when he walks in the room, or when he holds your hand, or when you want to hear him speak that's infatuation.
I think love is when he actually puts that ring on your finger, or he makes a commitment to you saying that he will actually try his best for you guys to stay together.

what do you think?

[SarahxJoy]

I think love is when he actually puts that ring on your finger, or he makes a commitment to you saying that he will actually try his best for you guys to stay together.

That could be bribery, too. Just kidding.

Everyone has a different definition for love, but I think it's something along the lines of: accepting someone not just as a person in general, but accepting them as a human being in every aspect of life, no matter how amazingly great or horrible they are at doing something, you love them regardless. Regardless of their past mistakes and faults, you love them because of how they make you feel, and vice versa. Loving someone because of all their bad and good qualities, no matter the extremities, because it's what makes them who they are as a person. Love is putting someone before yourself, and them doing the same. It's a give and take relationship which requires a much needed balance taken care of with respect, care, tenderness, and thought.

When you can't bare the thought of them being hurt or upset and would do anything in the world possible, to make it all okay again. Sticking together and having each other there through the bad and the worst, because love isn't perfect. And being held safely in their arms when things couldn't be better.

When you know all their little subconscious habbits or characteristics and their deepest dark secrets. When you know they're truly happy to when they're just faking a smile to get through the day, and you know something is wrong and you want to sincerely help them through it.

No matter what others say or think, nothing can take you two from each other, when you're both determined to be together for as long as you can imagine. It's when you're willing to share and give your thoughts, mind, heart, soul, and body, and them respecting you enough to really love you, not just for sex. Sort of a..it's us against the world, kind of thing.

I'm done.