Hmm need a lil advice!, *Bout a boy of course* Options

[malimars]

Hey everyone,

Ok so I'll try and make this as short as I can . Me and this boy were liking eachother for about a month and a half so kinda seeing eachother and we hung out one night and I left early and then the next day I go hang out with him and he has hikki's and there not from me . So I was mad because of that meanwhile I know I shouldn't be were not a couple he says he just kissed her but doesnt that mean he cant like me to much if he's out kissing other girls?. I just dont get it because he is one of those shy type of guys that will not make the first move on a girl or anything. He even showed me the hikki's himself and said " this is what happens when you get drunk". After that I left and he didn't want me to go and kept calling my cell and wanting me to go back but I dont wanna be the girl he calls when he needs some company or whatever. I dont know I feel like I have a right to be mad but than I feel I dont have a right to be mad? what would you's do? ditch him or still be his "friend" ?

[MyEverLastingHop...]

Well, you said you and he have been interested for about a month and a half.
How long have you two known each other?

If you are not technically dating, then you have no say in what he does, but I see why your upset.
You assumed he would focus on you and only you, which you have a right to expect.

I'm a jealous person myself ... If I see anyone talking to the person i have feelings for, I get very upset, but I control my temper ... it's just in my nature.

Some people are loyal by nature and some people have to work at controling themselves ...

In the case, you expected him to be loyal, even though you two were not dating, and he wasn't.

He said, "this is what happens when you get drunk", well, he didn't mean to hurt you, he just apparently happened to be drunk. I personally don't approve of that, but it's not my place to judge.

I think you should try talking to him and tell him how you feel and how he hurt you. I would still be his "friend". Then again, I am all for giving people second chances, it depends on how much your willing to put in the relationship you have with him.

Best of Luck to you, Ms.