A Relationship Issue. Options

[MyEverLastingHop...]

Alright,

I have a relationship problem.
I have feelings for a person. That person knows. That person feels the same way about me. Normally, that would be the end of story. But ... This is very complicated ....


-We are a few years apart age wise.
-This person's friends don't approve of me.
-My friends don't disapprove, but that arent too supportive of my feelings for the person.
-This person's parents are against it as well.
-I have limited time to see this person each day.


I have known this person for about three years. I have been attracted to them for about six months. I know this person is very truthful and honest. They would never use me.

I can't call this person, because they have been forbidden to talk to me. So, if I called their house, I would just get yelled at.

Even though we share our feelings, we can't technically "Go Out", as in have a title as Lovers, even though we both act like we're dating.

There isn't any sex, but we hold hands, kiss, we used to talk on the phone for hours.

To top things off, this person's younger sibling has had a "crush" on me for about a year and is totally against me having a relationship with their older sibling. So, it makes it harder in general.

Please don't say something along the lines of, "Just face the facts", or "Deal", because I won't give up on this, no matter what.

I just don't know what I should do. I am totally devoted to this person, but it's hard when there are so many things against us.

[MyEverLastingHop...]

Thank you for the support, sometimes thats all someone needs to hear.

& I am very flattered that you think I am handling this well, I like to think so.

Well, with the Asian issue, no thats not the case. It isn't because of race or religion. My parents don't have anything against the relationship.

Once again, I really never said anything about genders...
^_^;;

I know, I will deal with the younger sibling very carefully and I will be as gentle as possible.

It's just hard sometimes, knowing I can't have a "normal" relationship (If there is such a thing) because of everything going against us, but I will give it my all. I think of the person often ... It's been 11 days since I have had the pleasure of speaking to them, I feel terrible being cut off, but I really will manage.

Once again, if the age doesnt bother either of us, then I don't see why it should bother anyone else. Everyone will learn to cope it will just take time to show that both of us are mature.


EDIT [:]

It has been more than twelve days since I have last gotten to see or speak to the person I am dying to talk to ... I've found I've been a tad bitter and I have missed them greatly. I always tend to get a low self esteem when I don't talk to them and I always question their feelings for me. Things like, "I don't deserve to be with them", pop into my head, & then I remember that I'm not with them. They could easially go out and get into a relationship asnd I would have no say-so in it. It gets me very down. I know, I need to be clear headed when it comes to things like this, I just need to vent every once and a blue moon ...