A Relationship Issue. |
A Relationship Issue. |
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![]() Always [Hopeless] ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,316 ![]() |
Alright,
I have a relationship problem. I have feelings for a person. That person knows. That person feels the same way about me. Normally, that would be the end of story. But ... This is very complicated .... -We are a few years apart age wise. -This person's friends don't approve of me. -My friends don't disapprove, but that arent too supportive of my feelings for the person. -This person's parents are against it as well. -I have limited time to see this person each day. I have known this person for about three years. I have been attracted to them for about six months. I know this person is very truthful and honest. They would never use me. I can't call this person, because they have been forbidden to talk to me. So, if I called their house, I would just get yelled at. Even though we share our feelings, we can't technically "Go Out", as in have a title as Lovers, even though we both act like we're dating. There isn't any sex, but we hold hands, kiss, we used to talk on the phone for hours. To top things off, this person's younger sibling has had a "crush" on me for about a year and is totally against me having a relationship with their older sibling. So, it makes it harder in general. Please don't say something along the lines of, "Just face the facts", or "Deal", because I won't give up on this, no matter what. I just don't know what I should do. I am totally devoted to this person, but it's hard when there are so many things against us. |
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![]() I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 ![]() |
It sounds like what you're going
through with your signifigant other is difficult. But if you feel like this is something you don't want to let go.. How can anyone tell you otherwise? From my point of view you understand what's working against you and what's working for you. And it seems like you are holding off strongly, just continue to do so and do what you want is all I can advise. I also feel you are highly capable of working your relationship issues/coping it fine from your posts compared to some of the whining little teens I see moping about small flaws their relationships (I'm actually one as well ![]() With that said. I think all you have to do is check with your guy and see if he's ready to take on everything that tries to stand in your way if you have your mind made up. Good luck to you friend. I hope you find createblog slightly helpful and for the best outcome in your situation. ![]() |
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