A Relationship Issue. |
A Relationship Issue. |
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![]() Always [Hopeless] ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,316 ![]() |
Alright,
I have a relationship problem. I have feelings for a person. That person knows. That person feels the same way about me. Normally, that would be the end of story. But ... This is very complicated .... -We are a few years apart age wise. -This person's friends don't approve of me. -My friends don't disapprove, but that arent too supportive of my feelings for the person. -This person's parents are against it as well. -I have limited time to see this person each day. I have known this person for about three years. I have been attracted to them for about six months. I know this person is very truthful and honest. They would never use me. I can't call this person, because they have been forbidden to talk to me. So, if I called their house, I would just get yelled at. Even though we share our feelings, we can't technically "Go Out", as in have a title as Lovers, even though we both act like we're dating. There isn't any sex, but we hold hands, kiss, we used to talk on the phone for hours. To top things off, this person's younger sibling has had a "crush" on me for about a year and is totally against me having a relationship with their older sibling. So, it makes it harder in general. Please don't say something along the lines of, "Just face the facts", or "Deal", because I won't give up on this, no matter what. I just don't know what I should do. I am totally devoted to this person, but it's hard when there are so many things against us. |
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![]() daughter of sin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 ![]() |
QUOTE -We are a few years apart age wise. -This person's friends don't approve of me. -My friends don't disapprove, but that arent too supportive of my feelings for the person. -This person's parents are against it as well. -I have limited time to see this person each day. Sounds exactly like my "relationship". How many years are you apart? I don't think you should give up just because people don't approve. Why don't they approve? Because of the age difference? Also, I wouldn't worry about the time you see them. If you see them every day, then that's pretty good :) I don't think you should care about what other people think and just go on about what you both think is right. Otherwise you will regret it and always wonder "what if?". And that question kills. |
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