im in love with my best friend.. problem?? |
 Dec 27 2006, 12:44 AM
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 x_pinaystyle_x  Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 366,326  |
ok. i've known this dude since 8th grade..
im a junior right now.. he's been my best guy friend ever since! of course puberty kicks in and i suddenly happen to have feelings for him.. at first i thought it was nothing and i was just happy that he was always near me i wanted to make sure to keep me from being confused.. hahaha.. i would do stupid tests and everything.. like little flirts and stuff.. and everytime i do it, he would smile and my heart would just stop.yeah yeahh.. i do like him. haha.. yup. im stupid! i've been holding my secret love from him for a long time already.. we see each other every school day.. we eat and drink the samething (freeload!) how else should i stop from loving him?? i get sad whenever he's absent or when he doesn't pass by me during passing time.. im a sucker for him. we're best friends and i dont wanna ruin my friendship with him.. i mean.. we're really close and everything!! then... before christmas break.. i've decided that i'll tell him (finally!) but.. it didn't turn out so good. it turned out.. that he has always like me as a friend.. and never more.. he has never like me and he will never will <-- that's what he said. of course i regret ever telling him.. he ignored me for a week. i've cried of course during those days.. but then.. we started talking again.. like it never happened.. i really thought he liked me back. i really felt like fool. he kindness and everything fooled me. he told me things no guy would tell me. it hurts just thinking about it. but my heart tells me not to give up. should i? |
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Dec 29 2006, 09:08 PM
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QUOTE(brownsugar @ Dec 27 2006, 7:00 AM)  She already did..and he said he never liked her and never would like her. Honestly, as much as you like him my advice is don't push it if he's saying "no". You can't make him like you and I know it seems like "he's the only one" right now..but there really are others out there are there always will be others. You'll look back on this one day and laugh. But right now you don't want to jeapordize your friendship by making things awkward. I agree even though it may seem like there is no one else right now, once you move on you will see that there really are other fish in the see. Maybe try talking to some other boys you might like and see what happens |
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x_pinaystyle_x im in love with my best friend.. problem?? Dec 27 2006, 12:44 AM
icecreamisyummy I had somethign similar happen to me a year ago, e... Dec 27 2006, 01:58 AM icy_wonderland Lol, what you wrote is like some sort of weird poe... Dec 27 2006, 07:55 AM x_y0urElectrikk if you really like him that much.. then you should... Dec 27 2006, 02:11 PM GREASEbaby love is a pretty strong word for this case but..
y... Dec 28 2006, 02:04 PM angel_revelation You've already tested the limit, and it's ... Dec 28 2006, 09:34 PM gr00vyswordsman I say, enjoy what you have with him right now...en... Dec 29 2006, 12:49 PM c0cONuTTeR Really, there is nothing more scary than being rej... Dec 29 2006, 01:07 PM
gr00vyswordsman but we all know that wont happen ^_^
QUOTE(c0cONu... Dec 29 2006, 02:22 PM asung88 we all know the answer to this question Dec 29 2006, 07:26 PM |
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