Great relationship bad upcomming..., A bit confusing for the title |
Great relationship bad upcomming..., A bit confusing for the title |
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Ok I just got into a relationship with my friend who I've know and hung out with since preactially my whole life. Just to get this out of the way I'm 15 and he's 18. We've been together for a week now and I found out (from him) that after graduation in June, he's going to San Antonio texas for basic training because he's in the JROTC program at his school and he's training to be in the Air Force. Anyways, he's only going to be gone for six weeks over the summer but I don't know if it's worth it to stay together. Gosh that sounds bad. Umm I really like him and I feel comfortable around him and my parents love him his dad loves me and everything but it's going to be hard being so far away from him for so long because last summer, before we got together, I'd see him like every weekend or so since he lives about 30 minutes away and I'd have to take the bus over or something but yeah. And I wont be able to see him unless he brings his laptop and camera but webcams aren't the same as seeing him in real life. He said he wants me to go see his graduation but I'm not going to be able to afford round trip tickets to San Antonio. So I was wondering, should I just spend as much time with him as possuble now and then do emails and phones calls while he's there or just give up now before we get serious?
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![]() i'll spend forever loving you. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 571 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 431,524 ![]() |
well hey, you're 15. he's 18. the age difference doesn't really mean anything, but it's showing you that while he's gone living his life after college, you can be having a totally different life too. hmm, thats sound bad, but i think you get what im saying lol. what i mean is that, if youre contemplating things, then chances are, you shouldnt be together at that time because youre having doubts. and if you love him and your family and everything is great with him, then it could last, it really can, it'll just be a matter of getting used to. or if you want break it off for the time being thats fine too and you guys can get back together when he comes back since you guys really love each other right? its just a matter of what you want to do, if you cant be without him for that time, breaking up would mean youre without him, too right?
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