help!! i cheated!!! |
help!! i cheated!!! |
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k...so ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half months...b4 i was going out with him i had a crush on him for about a half a month. Hes ten years older than me. i really like him but theres alot about his background that i dont like...and if need be, he would go back to how he was (getting into fights, doing drugs[actually i know hes gonna go back to doing drugs in a few months, he cant do them now cuz he has to go to court to do urine tests every so often to make sure hes not doing drugs]). but i really like him...i lost my virginity to him and we have sex at least once a week. he also told me he wants to go camping together over spring break...in 3 months. he is reallly dedicated to me...
BUT theres this other guy who i like...i've had a crush on him for about 4 months ...and lately...weve been hanging out alot...and when were together im so comfortable...i like him alot too...well...he kissed me...and i kissed him back...hes my age...he does drugs sometimes too...i wound up explaining to him that i have a boyfriend and i only kissed him because i REALLY like him. at first he said maybe we would be able to go out in the future...but not now...he doesnt want to...then he said if i were to break up with my boyfriend we could hang out. i was actually thinking of breaking up with my boyfriend for a few reasons...1)the drugs 2)the age and also the fact that my family doesnt really like him cuz i spend alot of time with him...i know with the second guy i prob wouldnt spend as much time with him and the second guy said he doesnt want to wait around for me till me n my bf break up...he wants me to break up with him soon... i dont know who to go for...i feel bad breaking up with my bf since he really likes me and hes already making plans for the future....please please please help |
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![]() thanhnie ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 240 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 26,059 ![]() |
I think the 2nd guy is shady. If he's not gonna wait for you now, what makes you think he'll wait for you when you actually do break up with ur bf now? I think you should just stay with your bf now and try to work things out. I mean, if you're not gonna hang out with the 2nd guy a lot, what's the point of going out with him? Don't you actually wanna see your bf? I know I would if I had one.
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