ADVICE NEEDED!~ BOY ISSUE!, he treats me like shit...but i still like him a bit... Options

[RAWRxhardcore]

i have a slight problem...

i started new skool in Sept. ... and since about the 2nd or 3rd month of school ive had a crush on this really hot, athletic guy at skool. lets call him Rudy.

so i have liked Rudy for the longest...and i have no idea why. something attracts me to him even tho hes the biggest jerk-off that has ever lived. and let me tell you why...

one day Rudy and all of his friends were hangin out in the hallway at the end of the day. so one of his friends...lets call him Matt ... asked me if i really liked Rudy. now lets keep in mind that Rudy is standing right in front of me while this question was being asked. thinking i had nothing to lose i did not deny it one bit and said "yes...i do. problem?" and i walked away.

about 12-18 minutes later im walking in the hall and i just so happen to see Matt and Rudy and their 'posse' at the lunchroom door. we begin talking about me liking Rudy and i just blurt out.."well he doesnt like me so idc" Rudy says.."how do you know?" meaning that maybe he does have feelings for me. so we get to talking and i give him my #...and..something tells me that it wasnt real. =/

so days go by...and i find out that Rudy has a girlfriend. lets call her Kiana. and not only does he have a g/f...he had been dating Kiana for the past 2 years...uk that made me feel like utter and complete shitake. so as more and more people begin to hear about my once-secret crush on Rudy, they begin to tease me and him about it...like calling me by his name and him by mine...and i just keep getting madder and madder day by day...

and to make matters worse...he told his g/f that i had a crush on him. so now she secretly hates my guts...also, Kiana comes to all of Rudy's basketball games...when i have to cheerlead for the team and sits right in front of me. and whenever he makes a basket, she makes it a point to claim her territory by shouting his name at the top of her lungs and adding "thats my baby!" at the end of each sentence. oh...but the drama doesnt stop there...

at the last basketball game, i see him and her walking and talking together. so i ignore him and what does he do? he tries to hide from me. yeah. he hid behind the trophee shelf and just stood there. then from the corner of my eye, i see him and her pointing and laughin in my direction. so when i glanced over there, they spun their heads back around. soon i just left and i decided to give him the coldest shoulder ever felt by man for the rest of his high school days...

3 days have gone by and i have been acting like he doesnt even exist anymore. and its goin along well...but idk. i still my like him. should i continue to be mean or not?

ADVICE NEEDED.
thanks much,

rXh

[OhMyAnniee]

Wooow. You still like him?! Is he still with that girl? Maybe you guys could just be acquaintainces? or just online friends? I have guy friends online that I can talk to for forever but when I see them, there's just no interest in having a meaningful conversation.

Maybe you could bring up something nice or fun that happened in the past?

If that Kiana girl is trying to send out the message that "that's her baby," she's scared to lose him. She's making an effort.

Has he tried to talk to you in these 3 years?