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 Dec 14 2006, 12:22 PM
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Um--Can I get some help on this one?
Here's my little craptacular problem: I met this guy through a friend last January. He ASKED me to "be something more" to him after talking on the phone for about a month. I thought I was his gf in the beginning, but because of his "attitude" towards me( he was just a horny SOB), I realized I wasn't (thank goodness I never slept with him!), but we decided to be friends still. Still hung out with him, until I decided I didn't want to see him anymore.<<<All of this took place LAST YEAR. Fast forward...  I haven't seen him since last year. We DO keep in touch (occasionally) through IM. Sad part about this is, I have feelings for him (always did), yet I mask them because of what happened between us before. Mind you all, I have a hunch that he likes me, but I dunno exaclty how--if it's real or he's just suffering from blue balls. I told what I wanted before, yet he still talks to me (and I sadly, to him). What should I do? State my true feelings (again) or just let it go?  FYI: He's 21 and I'm 20. |
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Dec 14 2006, 01:05 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 332 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 485,651 |
Just talk to him again. Get to know each other better & make sure he likes you for YOU & not because he wants to hit that! & when you talk to him, tell him that you don't like to hear all the perverted stuff & if he stops,then thats a start of him respecting you. Before I let a guy in, I usually go with my motto: Respect,Trust & Love. I know from experience that you can't have Love without Trust & you can't have Trust without Respect.
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Kiky Need Help With This Dec 14 2006, 12:22 PM
Fragil_BlackRose ^^ Yeah I agree.
Talk to him and see if he still... Dec 14 2006, 09:55 PM hardxcoreL0VER Find out if he likes you. If he does, then you mig... Dec 14 2006, 10:17 PM krnxswat Sorry, but it's not love. Dec 14 2006, 11:32 PM _sarcastic_ next time you guys talk on IM bring up how you fel... Dec 15 2006, 12:58 AM
a painefull euphoria i think you should talk to him and see if hes a bi... Dec 15 2006, 01:24 AM Uronacid QUOTE(a painefull euphoria @ Dec 15 2006, 1... Dec 15 2006, 11:34 AM |
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