he dumps me and explains with lousy excuses..., is it bs or the truth? Options

[muffingirlsays]

My bf and I met last year, in a school club (Model UN). He was a delegate and I was a researcher and apparently I had been 'mean and apathetic' to him, thus intriguing him. We started talking - like friends - this year and we've gotten closer. He told me a lot of things and we shared similar ideas. He has never lied to me and he really cares. But two weeks before we broke up he was oddly distant to me and always deep in thought. We barely hugged or talked about things.

I dont know if I'm over reacting or not, but he (who's lasted only two months) dumps me saying that he feels that we dont 'match' anymore. He was going to give me an explanation, but I sort of demanded him to tell me.

me: I need to know. tell me.
him: ...well, this is hard for me too...
me: ...you're breaking up with me.
him: ...*hesitates* ... *nods*

I ask him online (because we really dont have time to talk; five minute MAX) to go into detail about WHY he broke up. He starts to tell me that he wasn't of any use to him and then says that he was a distracting to me. I see right through that and demand (again with the demanding) that he tell me the truth. So he says... "we've been drifting off" and that he thinks we're better off as friends. But the thing is... we really HAVE been drifting off. Before we started dating - we didnt really know much about one another - we were talking about spontaneous topics. and when we started dating it's been...strained. He tells me it's overkill to say that dating is like being handcuffed to the wall of a dungeon. I bought his explanation... for five minutes. until I realized that he's been giving me a list of excuses so far. This could've been another excuse. I tell him that I felt he was making up excuses and he says "get over it, it's done - -;; I'm still trying to forget it." And he also added that he was feeling confused and lost.

I confront him about it the next day, and he just nods, saying that he was telling the truth. and the thing is... my friend - who i am never trusting again - just blabbered my story to the school and now so many people know. (help me with this too girls x__x;; )


so what do you think - was he bsing or telling the truth?

thanks in advance