The case of the EX Options

[pkbabe]

Well this was a while back but I still have no idea why this occured. 1 day while I was on myspace, I see that I have a new mg so of course I go to see it....& its my ex!! Here is the mg(I changed a name & added some lil details within the mg)


Date: Nov 27 2006 9:54 PM Flag spam/abuse [ ? ]
Subject: advice
Body: sorry for bothering you but hope you Get this i need some advice. for some reason _[ Jane ]_ ( his gf/the girl he left me for) is mad at me. and i dont know what to do. can u give me any advice?


Isn't that weird?! Why would he ask ME for advice??? Out of all all people he could of asked!

But anyways I replied like an hr later saying sumthin like "This is weird of you to ask me but whatever. Just talk to [ Jane ] but don't nagg her. I don't know your situation so thats the best I can do. "

So why did you think he would ask me? He broke up with me @ March & we stopped talking @ July because I was tired of him leading me on & I wanted to get over him.

He got with his gf about a month later but he told when they were barely going out that he had feelings for her ever since they met (3 months before we broke up) & he would talk to her about his feelings for her & his problems with me(which he NEVER wanted to talk to me about. Its stupid he would talk to her about it because it was OUR problems!! )

Me & him had a long distance relationship. He lived a lil over a hr away & about 2 months before we split we had gotten in trouble with our parents & our cells were taken away. As a result, we didn't talk for about a month & a half & thats when started talking to HER!!

When we started talking again he was very distant. he would always makes excuses like "Can I talk to you later? I wanna watch TV" & I would go but he would NEVER call.

At around July I finally talked to his gf & I basically figured out that he did cheat on me with her! (although they claim thats not cheating) She told me how when me & my ex weren't talking, he would talk to her & would flirt. Then eventually she said she started to have feelings for him & so she started to ask about me & he would confide in her(thats the reason why he didn't wanna talk to me anymore) So do you think thats cheating? I think it is...even if its not physical. Its emotional.


I'm soo sorry about the long story. I thought it would help but my REAL dillema is "WHY WOULD HE ASK ME FOR RELATIONSHIP ADVICE WHEN HES THE 1 THAT LEFT ME? WHY ASK IF HE KNOWS I HATE HIS GF? Pls help

[*a painefull euphoria*]

i would not even awsnered that message
i would have replyed
"why the hell are you asking me the girl you dumped for that bitch
its not my problem you f**k up every relationship your in it seems"
I would also mention that he just randomly comes to me asking for help after he left me and now rather then a hey you jsut plop a dumb question like that on my lap.f**k you.
then i would have told him to go to hell.


i think he knows you dislike her and wants to see if your still intrested beacuse hes brought up that theirs issues in the relationship. its asking for drama which aparently he loves.