Confused, friends or lovers? |
 Dec 11 2006, 09:22 PM
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Well my bf hes really sweet and eveything buh then hes never really there when i need him the most. like when my parents fight. and i dont feel comfortable when talking with him while theres this other guy he's really kind to me always there to give me an advice. and i always call him dear and say stuff like i <3 yu and sometimes i actually mean it T_T. while when im with my bf my heart doesnt feel all jumpy and stuff like how most girls say that yur suppose to feel. :\. and the other guy he makes me feel safe. when im cold he wrap his arms around my shoulders. and when i hangout with him it always makes me feel like im cheating on my bf. cause my bf and i was never alone theres always some-1 there. while me and the other guy we hangout like once or twice a month ALONE. my bf is like the gangster type while my friend is like the quiet type.
 Who should i choose my bf or my friend who i think much more then just a friend? I still love my bf dearly buh then i dont show it ;x |
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Dec 13 2006, 04:49 PM
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I was sort of in the same situation... and I went for my friend. I felt more of a connection with my best friend than my bf and I denied it for a long time. I'm not saying that's what you should do, but for me I could not be happier with my friend/bf right now. The only problem was I broke my ex's heart even though I seriously tried my hardest not to. I am still regretful and guilty for that to this day, and forever. So basically, if you go for your friend, be gentle w/ your boyfriend - its obvious, but its hard to do.
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xmoon_lightx Confused Dec 11 2006, 09:22 PM
a painefull euphoria i think this is something you have to really sit d... Dec 11 2006, 10:00 PM BitterSweetness hmm. from your perspective, it seems that your rel... Dec 11 2006, 10:23 PM malimars Seems as if you have strong feelings for your frie... Dec 12 2006, 02:59 AM hardxcoreL0VER But you would need to know if your friend felt the... Dec 12 2006, 06:39 PM xmoon_lightx Well ts not like me and my bf can ever be alone he... Dec 12 2006, 06:46 PM Infinite. If your even questioning your relationship then I ... Dec 13 2006, 08:19 PM Uronacid ^yeah exactly
It sounds like you've already m... Dec 13 2006, 08:43 PM suddenly she i'm pretty sure the word "but" is sp... Dec 13 2006, 08:48 PM xmoon_lightx i think that my bf would start a fight with my fri... Dec 17 2006, 12:56 PM suddenly she then if you want your buddy beat, go straight ahea... Dec 18 2006, 12:42 AM showme Stay with your boyfriend, He'd kill your frien... Dec 18 2006, 12:46 AM
Mr. Slowjamz i say switch to the other and tell your bf its not... Dec 18 2006, 10:39 PM |
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