The case of the EX Options

[pkbabe]

Well this was a while back but I still have no idea why this occured. 1 day while I was on myspace, I see that I have a new mg so of course I go to see it....& its my ex!! Here is the mg(I changed a name & added some lil details within the mg)


Date: Nov 27 2006 9:54 PM Flag spam/abuse [ ? ]
Subject: advice
Body: sorry for bothering you but hope you Get this i need some advice. for some reason _[ Jane ]_ ( his gf/the girl he left me for) is mad at me. and i dont know what to do. can u give me any advice?


Isn't that weird?! Why would he ask ME for advice??? Out of all all people he could of asked!

But anyways I replied like an hr later saying sumthin like "This is weird of you to ask me but whatever. Just talk to [ Jane ] but don't nagg her. I don't know your situation so thats the best I can do. "

So why did you think he would ask me? He broke up with me @ March & we stopped talking @ July because I was tired of him leading me on & I wanted to get over him.

He got with his gf about a month later but he told when they were barely going out that he had feelings for her ever since they met (3 months before we broke up) & he would talk to her about his feelings for her & his problems with me(which he NEVER wanted to talk to me about. Its stupid he would talk to her about it because it was OUR problems!! )

Me & him had a long distance relationship. He lived a lil over a hr away & about 2 months before we split we had gotten in trouble with our parents & our cells were taken away. As a result, we didn't talk for about a month & a half & thats when started talking to HER!!

When we started talking again he was very distant. he would always makes excuses like "Can I talk to you later? I wanna watch TV" & I would go but he would NEVER call.

At around July I finally talked to his gf & I basically figured out that he did cheat on me with her! (although they claim thats not cheating) She told me how when me & my ex weren't talking, he would talk to her & would flirt. Then eventually she said she started to have feelings for him & so she started to ask about me & he would confide in her(thats the reason why he didn't wanna talk to me anymore) So do you think thats cheating? I think it is...even if its not physical. Its emotional.


I'm soo sorry about the long story. I thought it would help but my REAL dillema is "WHY WOULD HE ASK ME FOR RELATIONSHIP ADVICE WHEN HES THE 1 THAT LEFT ME? WHY ASK IF HE KNOWS I HATE HIS GF? Pls help