Confused, friends or lovers? |
Confused, friends or lovers? |
Dec 11 2006, 09:22 PM
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Well my bf hes really sweet and eveything buh then hes never really there when i need him the most. like when my parents fight. and i dont feel comfortable when talking with him while theres this other guy he's really kind to me always there to give me an advice. and i always call him dear and say stuff like i <3 yu and sometimes i actually mean it T_T. while when im with my bf my heart doesnt feel all jumpy and stuff like how most girls say that yur suppose to feel. :\. and the other guy he makes me feel safe. when im cold he wrap his arms around my shoulders. and when i hangout with him it always makes me feel like im cheating on my bf. cause my bf and i was never alone theres always some-1 there. while me and the other guy we hangout like once or twice a month ALONE. my bf is like the gangster type while my friend is like the quiet type.
Who should i choose my bf or my friend who i think much more then just a friend? I still love my bf dearly buh then i dont show it ;x |
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Dec 12 2006, 06:39 PM
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But you would need to know if your friend felt the same way you do about him. If he doesn't, why ruin your great relationship with him? As for your boyfriend, you should talk to him. Let him know how you feel. If you say something about your parents and he doesn't care and lashes out at you, dump him! You'll probably be sad but hey, you still got your friend that'll be there for you.
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xmoon_lightx Confused Dec 11 2006, 09:22 PM
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BitterSweetness hmm. from your perspective, it seems that your rel... Dec 11 2006, 10:23 PM
malimars Seems as if you have strong feelings for your frie... Dec 12 2006, 02:59 AM
xmoon_lightx Well ts not like me and my bf can ever be alone he... Dec 12 2006, 06:46 PM
raenbow* I was sort of in the same situation... and I went ... Dec 13 2006, 04:49 PM
Infinite. If your even questioning your relationship then I ... Dec 13 2006, 08:19 PM
Uronacid ^yeah exactly
It sounds like you've already m... Dec 13 2006, 08:43 PM
suddenly she i'm pretty sure the word "but" is sp... Dec 13 2006, 08:48 PM
xmoon_lightx i think that my bf would start a fight with my fri... Dec 17 2006, 12:56 PM
suddenly she then if you want your buddy beat, go straight ahea... Dec 18 2006, 12:42 AM
showme Stay with your boyfriend, He'd kill your frien... Dec 18 2006, 12:46 AM
Mr. Slowjamz i say switch to the other and tell your bf its not... Dec 18 2006, 10:39 PM![]() ![]() |