Confused, friends or lovers? Options

[xmoon_lightx]

Well my bf hes really sweet and eveything buh then hes never really there when i need him the most. like when my parents fight. and i dont feel comfortable when talking with him while theres this other guy he's really kind to me always there to give me an advice. and i always call him dear and say stuff like i <3 yu and sometimes i actually mean it T_T. while when im with my bf my heart doesnt feel all jumpy and stuff like how most girls say that yur suppose to feel. :\. and the other guy he makes me feel safe. when im cold he wrap his arms around my shoulders. and when i hangout with him it always makes me feel like im cheating on my bf. cause my bf and i was never alone theres always some-1 there. while me and the other guy we hangout like once or twice a month ALONE. my bf is like the gangster type while my friend is like the quiet type.
Who should i choose my bf or my friend who i think much more then just a friend?
I still love my bf dearly buh then i dont show it ;x

[malimars]

Seems as if you have strong feelings for your friend. I was in your situation and realized it was only a phase i went through as well I did the same as you and almost left my boyfriend thank god I didnt because I would truly regret it and you probably will too! and does your guy friend even like you like that or just being a really good friend he kinda shows signs he likes you but that shows signs he is just being a good friend to you! I dont know I say you hang out with your boyfriend ALONE more often and see if things are still the same GUYS ARE SO DIFFERENT AROUND THEIR FRIENDS OR ANYONE all us girls know that though lol! and if things still remain the same try it out with your guy friend!