Upfront and honest, pffft, yeah right Options

[Naomitron]

My whole life I've been a good kid. All who know me can testify to that. The thing is, I'm 19. I've always had a plan for what I was going to do in life and for the first time, I don't. Everything's been so f**ked up the last couple years and now I see an opportunity that I didn't completely explore when it was first presented to me (at the age of 15). I'm seriously considering go down this path, but it's such a departure from what my family is used to, I don't think they'll approve. I'm mostly concerned about my father. I've been hiding this from him for a long time now. If I take this chance, a lot of things in my life will change. I'll no longer have insurance (which I've had under my father's policy), no more military benefits, and I may have to start paying back my student loans early.

If I do take this chance, I might finally be able to start moving forward in life. I'm not quite sure what to do. I've been thinking it over for the past few months, but now that the fall semester has ended and winter break is upon me, I know that it's now or never to make the decision.

If it were you, taking into account what I've just said, would you follow the path that you and your family have laid out for you, or would you play your wild card and take this new opportunity that's suddenly at your door?

[elaboratedream]

it would really depend on what this opportunity was....

but in general, I'd say if its what you want to do, do it.

its your life. you only get one chance. do whatever it is you feel inclined to do.

having said that, i'd also suggest you be careful. because, like i said, you only get one chance.
and make sure its really what you want to do.

idk. its hard to give advice when i dont know what you're thinking of doing.... want to enlighten me?