Can A Lesbian fall for a Gay guy?, Im so lost Options

[Dabme]

Alright so...not too long ago i met this guy, who i never thought in my lifetime would never meet. Because we were from two different worlds and somehow i didnt even give it a chance upon first seeing him. But things happened and we were introduced. When I saw him for the very first time smile at me, i thought wow theres juss something about this guy. I didnt kno if i should like it or love it or even hate it. So every weekend from then on, since his cousin and my cousin were dating, i would see him one way or the other. So we juss started talking and before i even realise it, he was spilling his heart out to me!!! and me being an idiot didnt kno wat to say bak. He told me he was gay, and i told him i was a lesbian...he was out of the closet nd i wasnt. Some how he convinced me to tell my parents (something i never thought i would do until i was outta the house!) i dont kno wat it was, but everytime i saw his face it juss killed me more and more that he makes me want to be a better person. Even though he was telling me everything about him, i still didnt have the courage to tell him things. I think that he always felt rejected because he'd sit there and wait for me to say something and i wouldnt have anything to say! not that i didnt have anything to say, its juss that i wanted to let everything out at one time so when i opened my mouth, I'd juss choke and turn away..damn im such a fool. SO months went by with me still acting this way, nd him still trying to get the best part of me out. it wasnt until recently i realised sometihng that had been growing from the first time we met...we were at my cousins party and ran off somewhere to smoke..nd when we were sitting in our usual spot, out of no where he tells me that Im his BEST FRIEND and that if we both werent gay/les that I would be his girlfriend. OMG...nd yet again there i was turning away not saying anything!!!!!!!!! what was i going to do? he took the words right out of my mouth!!!!! I could feel his eyes watching me when i looked the other way...I juss kept telling myself that i was a lesbian..so now its a month later nd a little too late to say that i felt the same way. I noticed that since Ive met him, i dont look at girls the same way, i only see him...Everytime i have time to think, hes the first thing that comes to my mind..wow I love this gay guy who might juss feel the same way, but i rejected him by not taking his hint that he likes me...nd then juss the other day, as a way of trying to say that "I like you too" I bring up bad memories and juss start saying things..I was so scared to tel lhim that maybe this could work that i pushed him away and made him feel the way everyone else makes him feel. Nobody treats him good, he was always rejected growing up..nd now there i was, the only person that would never make him feel that way..I had to do it..Im such a dumb f**k. And i really love him. I never thought i would have feelings for any guy..and this guy juss happens to be gay..now wat..

[elaboratedream]

if you like him, and you think there's a chance that he might like you, go for it.

By thinking that its impossible for you to think that you could be anything but a complete lesbian, you're being as closeminded as the "straight" kids who have feelings for the same sex but are convinced they couldn't be anything but straight.

just let yourself experiment a little bit, you never know, maybe you're bisexual or maybe you're straight even. or maybe you're right and you're a lesbian. whatever the case, dont let yourself fall into being totally inflexible about your sexuality.

whatever your orientation is, dont worry about it too much. you're young, you can still change your mind about it.