freshman and senior?! |
 Oct 20 2006, 11:38 PM
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i think that's kinda weird/wrongish if a freshman liked a sr/visa versa/they were together.
can i have opinions? i know there's been posts like this, but this is like.. in particular.. know what i mean?  anyway. opinions? like, i'm fine with a 3-4 age difference, but i think that fresh-senior is A LOT. like 25-29 is okay, etc. but yeah.. you get the idea.  ps: sorry i have not been posting lately. |
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Dec 3 2006, 08:40 PM
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so yeah ok sweet_suicide your kinda...take that back you ARE really on my nerves!!
 i can tell you have no idea what you are talking about!! see i'm a senior/freshman relationship and well quite frankly i see nothing wrong with it!! see we met in a class a school that was mostly older people so yeah the younger ppl had no choise to talk to the older ones...well any ways we got to knop each other and we just clicked. and he doesnt push for sex...as a matter of fact i told him before hand thati just wasnt ready for that and we were both a-o-k with it!! see let me help you out just a little hun...most freshmen guys are way more ready to have sex, and are willing to push for it because they haven't had it yet and they feel as though it is something that they have to do!!(which is so LAME  !!). trust me i kno them and that is all they talk about...like 90% of my friends are guys!! i think some times it wont work but if you really love each other then it can...see just because it is difficult doesnt mean you should give up!!and before you say any thing about this...i know you are intitled to your own opinion but you dont have to shut others down every chance you get!!**your mind is like a parachute...works best when it is open  ** so to any one who is in/ wanting to be in a senior/freshman relationship- it is a challenge but it can happen--i know first hand!! but is rather difficult but have fun...it is not your fault that you wernt born sooner or them later some things you cant control...but what is ment to be will be!! 
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Dec 6 2006, 11:24 PM
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QUOTE(who me?! @ Dec 3 2006, 8:40 PM)  so yeah ok sweet_suicide your kinda...take that back you ARE really on my nerves!! i can tell you have no idea what you are talking about!! see i'm a senior/freshman relationship and well quite frankly i see nothing wrong with it!! see we met in a class a school that was mostly older people so yeah the younger ppl had no choise to talk to the older ones...well any ways we got to knop each other and we just clicked. and he doesnt push for sex...as a matter of fact i told him before hand thati just wasnt ready for that and we were both a-o-k with it!! see let me help you out just a little hun...most freshmen guys are way more ready to have sex, and are willing to push for it because they haven't had it yet and they feel as though it is something that they have to do!!(which is so LAME !!). trust me i kno them and that is all they talk about...like 90% of my friends are guys!! i think some times it wont work but if you really love each other then it can...see just because it is difficult doesnt mean you should give up!!and before you say any thing about this...i know you are intitled to your own opinion but you dont have to shut others down every chance you get!!**your mind is like a parachute...works best when it is open ** so to any one who is in/ wanting to be in a senior/freshman relationship- it is a challenge but it can happen--i know first hand!! but is rather difficult but have fun...it is not your fault that you wernt born sooner or them later some things you cant control...but what is ment to be will be!! How do you know how I have no idea what I'm talking about? I'm quiet a few years older than you and I have been called mature my whole life, but as I look back at when I was 14/15... there is just too much I did not know simply because that is such a young age, where I was just becoming a teen. That is true for every person. No matter how mature you are, it won't add on any years to your life. When I was a freshmen in high school, I so called "dated" older people. They did not use me in any way and we are all still on ok terms today. However, there is a reason why such relationships are debated about over and over again. The physical and emotional aspects are far off, even if they do not always appear to be so. I'm not trying to convince people to believe what I believe, but I am trying to get the 14/15 year olds to realize that there are still many years of learning to go through. |
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Dec 7 2006, 05:55 PM
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QUOTE(Sweet_Suicide @ Dec 6 2006, 11:24 PM) How do you know how I have no idea what I'm talking about? I'm quiet a few years older than you and I have been called mature my whole life, but as I look back at when I was 14/15... there is just too much I did not know simply because that is such a young age, where I was just becoming a teen. That is true for every person. No matter how mature you are, it won't add on any years to your life. When I was a freshmen in high school, I so called "dated" older people. They did not use me in any way and we are all still on ok terms today. However, there is a reason why such relationships are debated about over and over again. The physical and emotional aspects are far off, even if they do not always appear to be so. I'm not trying to convince people to believe what I believe, but I am trying to get the 14/15 year olds to realize that there are still many years of learning to go through. [font=Times New Roman] mmk well let me see did i ever say i was mature for my age...NO. although i kinda am. see i kno that we are not the same b/c he is older than me...i'm also aware that we aren't on the same level. but what i do kno is thatwhen were together it is as if nothing else matters. and it is not the 14/15 year olds at fault...you say we have a lot of learning to go through still and i 100% agree with you, but if an older person likes us then we cant help that so it is not just us!! you should address both parties in a relationship
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Dec 8 2006, 01:24 AM
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QUOTE(who me?! @ Dec 7 2006, 5:55 PM) [font=Times New Roman] mmk well let me see did i ever say i was mature for my age...NO. although i kinda am. see i kno that we are not the same b/c he is older than me...i'm also aware that we aren't on the same level. but what i do kno is thatwhen were together it is as if nothing else matters. and it is not the 14/15 year olds at fault...you say we have a lot of learning to go through still and i 100% agree with you, but if an older person likes us then we cant help that so it is not just us!! you should address both parties in a relationship I respect completley what you're saying and I realize the older person is in it too. Alot of times, it's the older person that has more issues though.. haha  It's just a bit annoying to hear a 14 year old elevating themslelves to the maturity of someone who is 25 or something. |
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ashopely freshman and senior?! Oct 20 2006, 11:38 PM
rawr SOCK I don't think there's anything wrong with ... Oct 20 2006, 11:40 PM Anna Banana =} I dated a senior. He doesn't feel theres anyth... Oct 20 2006, 11:45 PM **moonstruck** Well a (guy) friend once told me...
"When yo... Oct 20 2006, 11:50 PM
a painefull euphoria QUOTE(**moonstruck** @ Oct 20 2006, 10:50... Nov 7 2006, 07:28 AM Helaina to be honest, i think its fine. i don't get ho... Oct 20 2006, 11:51 PM QueenAkasha I don't think the difference is that big.
Actu... Oct 21 2006, 12:04 AM **moonstruck** QUOTE(QueenAkasha @ Oct 20 2006, 10:04 PM... Oct 21 2006, 10:35 AM femme_fatale4160 QUOTE(QueenAkasha @ Oct 21 2006, 12:04 AM... Dec 10 2006, 07:51 PM &/degradanca. a lot of the seniors at my school expect sex or do... Oct 21 2006, 12:49 AM Anna Banana =} I don't know what schools like for everyone el... Oct 21 2006, 12:55 AM gr00vyswordsman QUOTE(Anna Banana =} @ Oct 21 2006, 1:55 ... Oct 21 2006, 01:11 AM Anna Banana =} QUOTE(gr00vyswordsman @ Oct 21 2006, 2:11... Oct 21 2006, 01:12 AM No Fear I dated a freshman while I was a senior, didn... Oct 21 2006, 12:57 AM layli I think everyones kind of right, but it really all... Oct 21 2006, 01:00 AM suddenly she QUOTE(layli @ Oct 21 2006, 1:00 AM) I thi... Oct 21 2006, 02:57 PM sofakinglazy Can't like freshmen? Damn... Oct 21 2006, 11:47 AM ashopely i guess i'm the only one who kinda finds it we... Oct 21 2006, 04:04 PM angel_revelation that'd be odd... but there's nothing part... Oct 21 2006, 04:11 PM magicfann i've gone out with seniros :OOOFjioajsdklfjcxz... Oct 21 2006, 04:47 PM kayceeisms That seems perfectly fine to me, unless you're... Oct 21 2006, 04:57 PM WHIMSICAL 0NE I think when you look at numbers it isn't a hu... Oct 21 2006, 05:17 PM ashopely QUOTE(WHIMSICAL 0NE @ Oct 21 2006, 6:17 P... Oct 21 2006, 06:00 PM hojax QUOTE(WHIMSICAL 0NE @ Oct 21 2006, 6:17 P... Oct 22 2006, 10:24 PM n_Oodles QUOTE(hojax @ Oct 22 2006, 10:24 PM) exac... Oct 27 2006, 10:56 PM priyas not a problem.
my friend is 14----freshman.
her... Oct 21 2006, 06:20 PM ashopely QUOTE(priyas @ Oct 21 2006, 7:20 PM) not ... Oct 21 2006, 08:40 PM &/degradanca. well yeah, there is a good chance your parents mig... Oct 21 2006, 08:48 PM ashopely QUOTE(&/degradanca. @ Oct 21 2006, 9... Oct 21 2006, 08:51 PM Shortiiex i use to think the same thing
i was a freshman las... Oct 21 2006, 09:02 PM Spiritual Winged Aura Age is just a number, no ? Oct 22 2006, 01:00 AM Infinite. I don't see any problem in having a relationsh... Oct 22 2006, 12:34 PM ashopely thanks. :D Oct 22 2006, 06:07 PM Sweet_Suicide I have alot to say about this.
A relationship be... Oct 22 2006, 07:53 PM Spazzzmatic At my school, there are a couple of freshman-senio... Oct 22 2006, 08:17 PM mouse_3k the main reason why a senior is with a freshmen is... Oct 23 2006, 08:39 AM pandamonium QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Oct 23 2006, 9:39 AM) th... Oct 23 2006, 11:17 AM ashopely QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Oct 23 2006, 9:39 AM) th... Oct 23 2006, 03:06 PM Sherlock. QUOTE(ashopely @ Oct 20 2006, 11:38 PM) i... Oct 23 2006, 11:21 PM ashopely QUOTE(Sherlock. @ Oct 24 2006, 12:21 AM) ... Oct 24 2006, 08:35 PM **Lucy* When I was 13 my ex-bf was 15 to 16..
It wasn... Oct 24 2006, 05:08 AM Uronacid Yeah I really don't find anythign wrong with t... Oct 24 2006, 08:56 PM WHIMSICAL 0NE Here, if you're a senior and you're 18 and... Oct 24 2006, 09:07 PM Sweet_Suicide Yeah, there is a gray area and I've been there... Oct 24 2006, 09:48 PM boo! grr... it's only a 3 yr difference...14yr old girl an... Oct 25 2006, 01:52 AM ashopely thanks for the opinionsss. Oct 25 2006, 04:33 PM blurrr well a 4 yr difference isnt that bad when your 25-... Oct 25 2006, 05:36 PM ashopely QUOTE(blurrr @ Oct 25 2006, 6:36 PM) well... Oct 25 2006, 05:37 PM WHIMSICAL 0NE Wait, I was talking about serious relationships. L... Oct 25 2006, 11:58 PM Mschamgirl no cuz AGE IS JUST A NUMBER unless the dude is you... Oct 26 2006, 06:16 PM Sweet_Suicide The point is, not all 14 year olds are ready to ma... Oct 26 2006, 07:10 PM WHIMSICAL 0NE Mhmm, I respect everyone elses thoughts and views,... Oct 26 2006, 10:33 PM xourzestt Didn't i reply to this??... I wrote down a rea... Oct 26 2006, 11:27 PM StanleyThePanda ^ I highly doubt it was deleted. Maybe you just fo... Oct 27 2006, 01:03 PM Allycat I really dont have any problems with a freshman an... Oct 27 2006, 11:13 PM Sweet_Suicide I just think a 14 year old still looks like a kid,... Oct 28 2006, 05:33 PM preciousbabyrae well, it pretty much depends on how much they know... Oct 29 2006, 01:25 PM Sweet_Suicide QUOTE(preciousbabyrae @ Oct 29 2006, 1:25... Nov 1 2006, 11:33 PM preciousbabyrae QUOTE(Sweet_Suicide @ Nov 1 2006, 10:33 P... Nov 5 2006, 07:19 PM Sweet_Suicide QUOTE(preciousbabyrae @ Nov 5 2006, 7:19 ... Nov 5 2006, 08:16 PM ashopely QUOTE(Sweet_Suicide @ Nov 5 2006, 8:16 PM... Nov 6 2006, 04:59 PM instantmusic This post has been edited for security reasons. Oct 30 2006, 02:24 AM nightacer-x sorry but what's the age gap between a freshma... Oct 30 2006, 11:17 AM ashopely freshman is 14 and 15 year olds. senior is 17 and... Oct 31 2006, 04:06 PM nightacer-x mm if that's the case it think it's alrigh... Nov 1 2006, 10:47 AM x1227x i think that's fine but it really depends if i... Nov 2 2006, 12:49 AM xmusic lmao. as long as they arent cousins im completely ... Nov 2 2006, 01:02 AM Sweet_Suicide QUOTE(xmusic @ Nov 2 2006, 1:02 AM) lmao.... Nov 2 2006, 08:02 PM slipper QUOTE(ashopely @ Oct 25 2006, 12:37 PM) t... Nov 2 2006, 01:13 AM rawtheekuh. Meh. If a senior floats your boat, go ahead. Ain... Nov 4 2006, 11:18 AM ashopely QUOTE(rawtheekuh. @ Nov 4 2006, 11:18 AM)... Nov 4 2006, 12:47 PM rawtheekuh. ^I was speaking generally. The 'you' wasn... Nov 4 2006, 04:26 PM ashopely QUOTE(rawtheekuh. @ Nov 4 2006, 4:26 PM) ... Nov 4 2006, 10:06 PM My Cinderella. I don't think its a big deal. Nov 4 2006, 09:12 PM angel_revelation I think it's kind of like... If a 30 year old... Nov 4 2006, 10:37 PM ashopely ^ same. there are some mature ones who wouldn... Nov 5 2006, 06:35 PM ashopely ^ yeah, true. it's like a you-can't-jump-... Nov 5 2006, 07:55 PM ashopely QUOTE(who me?! @ Dec 3 2006, 8:40 PM)... Dec 4 2006, 02:47 PM boats and birds well i am a freshman but i still feel immature com... Dec 4 2006, 01:52 AM SkittleyDoo It's fine but from what I've noticed befor... Dec 4 2006, 03:46 PM Lamar You know you should do what your heart desires bec... Dec 6 2006, 11:26 PM ashopely ^ it would be 14 and like 17. Dec 9 2006, 06:50 PM _tiara There's really nothing wrong with it.. I guess... Dec 10 2006, 06:32 PM unconfirmed_existance I think it depends on the people involved really..... Dec 10 2006, 09:14 PM BrokenxWingsx I suppose it could work, but it's very unlikel... Dec 10 2006, 11:17 PM ashopely ^ not all.
and there's still probably some s... Dec 11 2006, 03:35 PM xmoon_lightx I htink yu should get to know the guy more b-4 yu ... Dec 11 2006, 07:20 PM who me?! well here i am to swallow some pride and admit def... Dec 15 2006, 05:14 PM ashopely ^^^^ i'm sorry. Dec 15 2006, 05:34 PM flypigzfly i think its possible but thinking deeply here: the... Dec 17 2006, 04:44 PM satisfied-tom from my point of view, i wouldn't care how old... Dec 18 2006, 07:03 PM Ugene87 geez some of you are starting to give me a complex... Dec 19 2006, 04:58 AM boo! grr... i never really thought about the guy's point o... Dec 24 2006, 12:43 AM |
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