met at a party, and now we're dating? |
met at a party, and now we're dating? |
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![]() straight as a rainbow and twice as colorful ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 523 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,415 ![]() |
so I went to a party at my friend's house, and it wasn't exactly a sober party.
and there was this guy there that I had met a few times before... and we both had a few drinks... and by a few I mean a lot.... and the rest of the night was kinda a blur. so I wake up the next morning, and it's one of those "oh crap, what did I do last night?" mornings. I was proud of myself, I didn't have sex with him... but I did ask him out... and he said yes... so I was just sorta hoping that he'd have forgotten about it... I mean, I didn't even know him. but then he called me that day and i knew he remembered. and he was really sweet, he showed up at school to eat lunch with me and stuff (he dropped out earlier this year) and he just all around sounds sweet... but I'm not sure how much of that is him being manipulative... I've had some bad experiences with various significant others, and I have issues believing people when they act like that. Because I've come to realize that its usually just that - an act. and I've heard some other things from other people. for instance, one of my friends was saying that he was denying the fact that we were going out. And right now, I'm wondering if I should break up with him... not because of what my friend said, but because I really dont know him... what do you think i should do? |
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![]() yan lin♥ ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 ![]() |
well unless you really like him.
If you don't like the guy, why are you even with him? |
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Genin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 196 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 471,009 ![]() |
well unless you really like him. If you don't like the guy, why are you even with him? I agree. If you aren't attracted to him, then why bother? He does sound sweet, but most guys act like that in the beggining. Some of them are forever like that, and some of them change over time/reveal the way they really are. If you pick to stay with him, then I advise you to ask him about denying about going out with you. If he lies and says he didn't and you're friend is telling the truth, then he's no good. Dump him before you get attached in any way. |
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